So I just started dating this guy. It's been 3 weeks.
Anyway after much begging on his part I said sure we'll get a hotel and spend the night together. We'd gone on a number of dates so it wasn't a 1st date thing. But Friday morning my brother told me he'd been called into work (he's a paramedic) & as such I'd have to take dad to the doctor's appointment.
No big deal. With this guy we went out & eventually ended up in the hotel for a few hours. The conversation was, I'd have to leave but you know we can do things Saturday & spend the night together Saturday night when I didn't have family obligations.
Anyway he continually tried to use emotional manipulation to get me to stay & I said repeatedly I didn't want to but I had to & we'll just pick up tomorrow.
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Gets to Saturday morning and he goes home. Doesn't even bother telling me - if I hadn't asked what was he doing (his response - driving) I wouldn't have known he was going home.
It hurts in a way as we'd had a very good time, etc. We'd spent a number of dates, etc. He'd been calling me his love, his good luck charm, etc. Quite obviously meaningless words otherwise he'd have stayed.
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But what annoys me the most of the situation is he plays the victim. Saying that he woke up at 4am and he had nothing to do - watch the fucking TV at the hotel, etc.
He was acting as if I'd purposefully abandoned him & walked out on him when reality is, is he knew we agreed to do things Saturday and just spend the night together Saturday.
It was a simple 18 hour delay from what he wanted.
And yet because he didn't get his way, he ran away like a child / spoiled brat. I am very thankful it happened now & not later on when really invested in a relationship with him. Imagine in some odd years having kids with the guy and because he don't get his way, he leaves.
I said repeatedly I didn't want to leave but I had to & we'll just pick up tomorrow.
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Lose this whiny little bitch. You're better off without him
Thank you. It's very annoying because we arranged to spend Friday night together & spend Saturday too originally before my brother got called to work.
We even spoke about it before going to the hotel. That we'd carry on as originally planned it was just a minor delay. He even acknowledged that that was the plan.
Come today & he's like well... whatever. He didn't care that he didn't even text me to say okay I'm leaving.
He has no care or concern that in many ways I feel used for cheap sex, like some whore or prostitute. Which when I've only been with 2 guys before is quite hurtful.
I could've easily seen waking up in the morning if I'd stayed with him alone, again used for cheap sex.