This situation is honestly distressing me lol. I might be in love with this person. So I met her almost 2 years ago at work. she got promoted somewhere else and left the job then got promoted again back to our store and that’s when things started.
She was now in charge at work. She’s only one year older than me but at first I thought she was extremely sarcastic and took her job too seriously. She does have a fun/loose side but can take her job seriously.
One day I wasn’t talking to her because I was in a bad mood and she went out of her way to keep asking if I was ok and if something was wrong because I wasn’t talking.
I didn’t think she liked that I had a boyfriend. Every single time I would text / call him she would say something and then tell the other managers on me which made me so mad at her and she knew this. She never asked about him either and got quiet when I brought him up. She asked about other coworkers relationships.
One day I called him when we were clocking out and leaving the store ( so I could pretty much do what I wanted ) and she irritably told me to hang up after I told him I loved him over the phone.
She knew I was upset and gave me a reusable bag from the job lol. We weren’t allowed to talk about it but on her last day at work, she wanted to take individual pics with everyone and grabbed me by the waist and hugged me. I was the only one she hugged.
She told another manager ( who im close to ) that she thought I hated her.
After she left the job she kept visiting and I missed her. I found out she wanted to come back to the job to work there again. A little after she went out and met a guy and now they’re dating.
When I finally saw her again, she happened to bring the guy in the store and didn’t introduce him to me ( she did for everyone else ) and she wouldn’t make eye contact with me.
It’s been a few months and she hasn’t posted him so maybe they broke up. I miss her so much. Do we have a chance? Was there ever anything?
She was now in charge at work. She’s only one year older than me but at first I thought she was extremely sarcastic and took her job too seriously. She does have a fun/loose side but can take her job seriously.
One day I wasn’t talking to her because I was in a bad mood and she went out of her way to keep asking if I was ok and if something was wrong because I wasn’t talking.
I didn’t think she liked that I had a boyfriend. Every single time I would text / call him she would say something and then tell the other managers on me which made me so mad at her and she knew this. She never asked about him either and got quiet when I brought him up. She asked about other coworkers relationships.
One day I called him when we were clocking out and leaving the store ( so I could pretty much do what I wanted ) and she irritably told me to hang up after I told him I loved him over the phone.
She knew I was upset and gave me a reusable bag from the job lol. We weren’t allowed to talk about it but on her last day at work, she wanted to take individual pics with everyone and grabbed me by the waist and hugged me. I was the only one she hugged.
She told another manager ( who im close to ) that she thought I hated her.
After she left the job she kept visiting and I missed her. I found out she wanted to come back to the job to work there again. A little after she went out and met a guy and now they’re dating.
When I finally saw her again, she happened to bring the guy in the store and didn’t introduce him to me ( she did for everyone else ) and she wouldn’t make eye contact with me.
It’s been a few months and she hasn’t posted him so maybe they broke up. I miss her so much. Do we have a chance? Was there ever anything?
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It sounds like the guy has her attention for good now.