Do you think using a lot of humor on a first date is good or bad?

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Do you think a person can be too funny on a date? Do you think it's to hide their nervousness? Or does it make you more comfortable to have someone who can't stop joking?

Emiliamazing · Accepted Answer

Some things to consider are how you initially got to the point of going on a date. Should have a little bit of a sense of how the other individual operates and what they found attractive about you. A few jokes here and there might be good, or it might not be what they're looking for in a first date.
if you're normally not a jokester, that's not to pretend to be one on the first date :-). A really important rule to remember is to take an interest in whoever you are spending time with. That goes for friends and significant others.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I have never gone on a date with a funny guy but the most important thing for me on a first date is stability, confidence and open mindedness because unless I trust a guy, his charm and beauty does not matter. I do not mean sexually open minded, I mean open minded in the sense, he understands people have different policies, ideologies, lifestyles, perspectives, interpretations, and behavioural patterns. If he can’t accept his cultural other or outsider, there will not be a second or third date.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

It really depends... the type of humor plays a part. The receiver of the humor plays a part. I mean we have a lot of people that will totally miss the point of a joke and think you're just some kind of -ism or -phobe and it's basically over unless you're super buff and ripped and was going to pull it anyways. It's a bunch of factors.

Personally, I prefer a chick that cracks jokes... they're just easier to get along with in my opinion. Low-drama hookups is going to be found there the most.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Too much humor can kill because no one is that funny and very few people think all the same things are funny. Humor is essential, however, it should be used in a classical form. Simple and corny jokes that are little quick or smart. There are tons of corny animal jokes that do not offend,

Smc08 · Answer

It depends on where you go I guess. Like if your going to the bowling ally. Yes absolutely. That’s the perfect place to get to know each other. At a movie it can be situational and if your going to dinner for the first date probably not a whole lot. If your going formal, go all the way formal I guess. I don’t know why people be trying to get fancy the first time tho. Ain’t no one got the money to pretend to be rich anymore. I’d rather go on dinner dates with someone I WANT to pay for rather than guessing.

It’s a set up now if someone asks you to dinner on the first date. 💯

desidoll · Answer

I kinda like men with sense of humor but overly doing it can be repulsive. I know a guy who laughed over things that are not even funny lol or worse is laughed at his own jokes.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I mean some say that a funny guy is most dangerous because first you are laughing and then the next thing you know you are naked… so yeah!!

ShadezMcgee · Answer

There is a fine line in using humor during a date. Obviously you want to have a fun, enjoyable and relaxing time, but if you try to use humor the whole time, it will come off as weird and trying too hard. You have more of a chance to be seen as a funny guy over a potential lover.

SpokenTruth · Answer

I don't do dates but I do try to humor others because if I can get them in a good mood it makes me feel better and that puts me in a good mood too or keeps me there. And I can't stand being around others that have a dry sense of humor taking things too serious when someone is trying to humor them. I do know there are things that are offensive but to excluding those.

NathanDavis · Answer

it always worked for me

but I would not say it was an excess nor trying too hard...

it should be more genuine and not overdone... you also have to consider the other person as well, some people just don't have the same sense of humor as others

serious · Answer

If the other person likes funny, jovial nature then there is no problem with having a lot of humor even on the first date itself

KittyKat90210 · Answer

Showing that you have a good sense of humor is fine, but using a lot of humor on a first date is a bad thing. It's hard to get to know someone or have a serious conversation when you're constantly hit with jokes.

LazerBean · Answer

It depends on the person. I would say use as much humor as you normally would, so that you don't create expectations that you are not going to consistently live up to.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Needs to be a balance but generally humour is a good thing

Nikki1989 · Answer

People that are fun to be with is always good.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I find humor rather attractive , however too much could take up from the overall experience.

the_sinner · Answer

The other person’s reaction/response needs to be checked before using too much of humour otherwise the date would be ruined.

ariadneR · Answer

We'll not too too much. There have to be moments of seriousness. But as long as y'all are both having fun and you vibe well, that's all that matters in the end

Flight0 · Answer

Test the waters. If the person is reacting well enjoy one or two teasing jokes. Too much of any good thing can sour.

Anonymous · Answer

Just be yourself, to heck with a criteria of how we are supposed to behave. Sheesh

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s usually good unless she doesn’t have a sense of humor and doesn’t laugh at your jokes

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

It is a good indicator of nervousness.

exitseven · Answer

It is good but don't go too crazy.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Moderation and be normal.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

It's good if it lands!

robocop666 · Answer

just let your interaction be natural

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