Would you ever consider seeing someone who is in an open marriage?

[LegendaryDater]

Yes

No

[AviatorTom]

If I was single, yes, I'd consider it. I'd want assurances from her and her spouse that they truly have an open marriage. And considering it doesn't necessarily mean I'd do it.

[coachTanthony]

I've done it once and don't recommend it.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[coachTanthony]

@Guardian45 It can get kinda hairy if their definition of an open marriage is cheating without them knowing it lol

[Guardian45]

Wait! Whaaat? One DIDN'T know they were in an open marriage?

[coachTanthony]

@Guardian45 No they just lied to the people they were sleeping with by saying it's okay I am in an open marriage when in fact they may have been separated, going through divorce or simply married and unhappy. So my point is don't trust people who say they are in an open marriage whether it's on a dating app or someone you meet. Could be an excuse just to give you to have an affair.

[Guardian45]

Gotcha! Great advice as usual Coach!

[OlderAndWiser]

Regardless of the fact that I am single, dating a married woman is absolutely against my rules. I've had a few opportunities and always said "no."

[Guardian45]

I did too, until I did. I don't regret it.

[Bethany22]

I would consider it, but probably wouldn't do it. Or I'd do it, but it wouldn't involve sex.

[Guardian45]

What kind of relationship are you talking about then?

[lightbulb27]

no way. There are no problems... until there is a problem. Then it's a mess.

There's reasons there is "traditional" in societies.

[Guardian45]

Have you tried it?

[lightbulb27]

@Guardian45 no nor do I know anyone personally that has. I'm speaking from observations of life based upon other peoples lives that get screwed up. Some things, you cannot fix.
I certainly understand morphine... I've had that and it's amazing if wasn't so addicted, I'd have an IV of it all the time, why not? That's all this is... an IV of the best mating drugs and dopamine hits to make a person feel good.
But to each his own, maybe at some ages or personalities it works, I'm not telling others what to do...

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[Jessica405]

No. I would never play second fiddle to another woman.

[Guardian45]

Even if you're the guest star?

[Jessica405]

@Guardian45 Nope. I am a one girl, one guy person.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[Anemone978]

Nah... if they are open who knows how many people they have sex with.. I never seen the need for that unless one or both don't truly love the other person...

[genericname85]

HELL no. words can not even describe the ammount of disgust and repulsion i feel for that nonsense. like either go fuck around or get married and settle. poor will smith. pussy whipped bastard. never fuck a narcissist.

[CopperStove]

That’s just not a dynamic I want to be apart of. I’d rather have my own partner if I was looking for a relationship and I’d prefer to do without the extra drama if I was looking for something casual.

[FreyaRed]

Nope. I don't eat from same plate other have eaten before either.

[Guardian45]

So you want some NOT to share?

[inhua]

come on guys. "man up" and stop "slut shaming" and accept these women in open marriages

[RavVid]

I don't want to be involved in shit in anyway. I wouldn't consider being in an open marriage myself. Be what you are is my golden rule.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[RavVid]

@Guardian45 For the reason stated. Because some people do something doesn't mean I should. I like to lead a simple life.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[Chazmatazz269]

Not without knowing and trusting their significant other.

[BoobSlayer]

I don't see the issue. If a girl has two boobs that's one for each guy.

[Paul_in_Indy]

“Seeing” her? No. Sleeping with her? I guess. I’m not interested in getting involved.

[Guardian45]

So you would agree to have a fling with her from time to time?

[Paul_in_Indy]

Yeah. I would hesitate to get into anything more complicated than both of us needing release.

[Guardian45]

Ok. Thank you.

[Mayo503]

Maybe I’ve never done it so I don’t know…
How I would feel about it…?

[musicbrain5]

Absolutely not. I don’t want to get involved in that.

[Berethor]

No, because I am not into hos, I has saw one girls like that in a dating site, it was weird.

[Guardian45]

Why is she a hoe, if they both agree to an open marriage?

[Berethor]

If she let multiple men to be on her then she is a ho, agreed or not agreed don't matter.

[Guardian45]

And what about her husband? Is he a hoe too?

[Berethor]

He is a pathetic cuck, women get called hos, not men, but you can call him a ho.

[Guardian45]

I meant if they BOTH sleep with other people. Why is she a hoe? Wouldn't he be one too?

[Berethor]

Because he a male while she a female, a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock.

[Guardian45]

If they're both sleeping with people outside of their marriage, then either they're both hoes or neither of them is. Key and lock are irrelevant.

[Paul09]

To only mess around with , be a fun friend, yes. Other than that no.

[jshm2]

It's just a shorter way of saying "polygamy without the responsibility"

[FilmGuy93]

Helllll no. That's just asking for trouble.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[FilmGuy93]

@Guardian45 because you’re the expendable person in an arrangement that could change at a moment’s notice, and you’ll be the last to know when it changes. Oh, and if their marriage isn’t 100% solid, as the other man; you WILL have all their bullshit dumped on you.

[Guardian45]

I understand. Thank you.

[AdithyaR]

Nope, can't do it.
I can do polygamous relationships but not open relationships.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[AdithyaR]

A polyamorous relationship is still a closed circle, it's 3 or more people dating each other together they don't date anyone outside of that.
But in an open relationship there's too many variables and randomness and my anxiety can't deal with that.

[Guardian45]

So a 'closed' poly is fine then?

[AdithyaR]

Yes, I'd be okay with that.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[Guardian45]

I would consider an open marriage and participate in a 'closed' open marriage (poly).

[Anonymous]

Been there, done that, never going to do that ever again.

[Guardian45]

May I ask why not?

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 Because it almost broke me, and I've fought hard to get myself back again

[Guardian45]

Are you still married?

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 I never got married

[Guardian45]

May I ask why you felt it almost broke you?

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 I'm a monogamous person, so it didn't sit well with me he was with someone else.

There was more to the relationship than that, he was also manipulative and other stuff.
But overall, sharing a partner is not something I did enjoy back then, and I could lever enjoy it in the future either.
- and I don't want to be with more than one at a time myself

[Guardian45]

So really you were an unwilling, manipulated participant. That's WRONG! I'm sorry that happened to you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 Well I knew about the situation, I just didn't like it. I was stupid, naive, and weak when it came to him, he had this... I don't know, energy? aura? about him, that made me so weak.
And I kept telling myself it would get better, we just had to get over the current problems etc.

It's honestly a long story with many facets, and maybe if I had tried an open relationship with someone who didn't do me as dirty as he did, manipulated me, and made me so insecure, it would have been different.
But I would still not have liked it, and I wouldn't be able to thrive with someone who wants to be with someone else as well

[Guardian45]

Well, kudos to you for seeing through his manipulation and getting out. The sooner you can put him behind you the better!

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 Well... he even told me to my face that he was manipulative xD He participates in LARP (live action role playing games,) and he told me he once got a girl to lick the pavement

But yeah, glad I got out when I did, though I would have wished it was sooner. But cannot keep thinking about that.

[Guardian45]

You survived him. You're a stronger person with better focus!

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 Don't know if I'm stronger, but my guards are up compared to before and I want to be better at not taking any crap at least

[Guardian45]

I would call that stronger

[Guardian45]

And smarter!

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 Haha thanks. One can only hope that's the truth

[Guardian45]

You're welcome!

[Guardian45]

DM me anytime

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Hell no. I don't find that appealing at all.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's against my personal morals. You don't need any further justification than that.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I respect the sanctity of marriage too much.

[pethouse]

Idc if she was one of the most beautiful girls in the world it would never happen

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[pethouse]

Because that’s disgusting

[Guardian45]

Can you explain why?

[DizzyDesii]

I have no interest in partaking in adultery

[Guardian45]

If a couple agree to an open marriage, how is it adultery?

[DizzyDesii]

from a religious stance, its adultery. If theyre not religious then no reason to give a hoot ig

[Guardian45]

So you would call yourself religious?

[DizzyDesii]

@Guardian45 I've always considered myself religious which is why i said religious guilt was what held me back from banging more than i have. Tell me you never read what i write in bold under my questions without telling me you never read what i write in bold

[Guardian45]

I apologize for NOT remembering EVERYTHING you write. You are QUITE PROLIFIC!🙂🙃😏

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[EmmaMary]

@Guardian45

The very simple answer is I do not believe in them, I do not like them, therefore I have absolutely no time whatsoever for them.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you

[EmmaMary]

@Guardian45

You're most very welcome indeed.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yes, but only for sexual reasons.

[Ms_Facesitter]

... second place... no thank you.

[Guardian45]

But you could sit anywhere!

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes but I prefer the throne.

[Guardian45]

HAHAHA! This is the BEST A, MsFS!

[Guy13]

Never ever ‼️

[whirled_up_girl]

No, I wouldn't.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[whirled_up_girl]

@Guardian45 I only get into serious relationships so if the guy is already married the best I could be is the side piece.

[Guardian45]

How about you agree to an open marriage?

[whirled_up_girl]

@Guardian45 I’ve known people who have been in polyamorous relationships and those types of arrangements have their own set of challenges. Don’t get wrong if people choose to do that it’s way better than cheating or having an affair but I don’t know if personally I would want that.

[Guardian45]

What would you say are the challenges in poly relationships?

[whirled_up_girl]

@Guardian45 Sometimes the two or men or women try to complete with each other. There can also be some jealousy even though the relationships are agreed upon.

[Guardian45]

Gotcha. Thank you.

[LiamJHayden]

Absolutely not

[msc545]

I don't need the drama

[Josssef]

if I can fuck anyone I want why not?

[Anonymous]

No, and open marriage = failed marriage.

[Anonymous]

No, I want them to be all mine

[Anonymous]

As a Fuck Buddy, sure.

[Anonymous]

No way

[Wise4myage]

No thanks.

[Iron_Man]

No never

[LavLavLuv]

Nope

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[In_Trance]

I don't think so