Would you ever consider seeing someone who is in an open marriage?

[LegendaryDater]

Yes

No

[AviatorTom]

If I was single, yes, I'd consider it. I'd want assurances from her and her spouse that they truly have an open marriage. And considering it doesn't necessarily mean I'd do it.

[coachTanthony]

I've done it once and don't recommend it.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[coachTanthony]

@Guardian45 It can get kinda hairy if their definition of an open marriage is cheating without them knowing it lol

[Guardian45]

Wait! Whaaat? One DIDN'T know they were in an open marriage?

[coachTanthony]

@Guardian45 No they just lied to the people they were sleeping with by saying it's okay I am in an open marriage when in fact they may have been separated, going through divorce or simply married and unhappy. So my point is don't trust people who say they are in an open marriage whether it's on a dating app or someone you meet. Could be an excuse just to give you to have an affair.

[Guardian45]

Gotcha! Great advice as usual Coach!

[OlderAndWiser]

Regardless of the fact that I am single, dating a married woman is absolutely against my rules. I've had a few opportunities and always said "no."

[Guardian45]

I did too, until I did. I don't regret it.

[Bethany22]

I would consider it, but probably wouldn't do it. Or I'd do it, but it wouldn't involve sex.

[Guardian45]

What kind of relationship are you talking about then?

[lightbulb27]

no way. There are no problems... until there is a problem. Then it's a mess.

There's reasons there is "traditional" in societies.

[Guardian45]

Have you tried it?

[lightbulb27]

@Guardian45 no nor do I know anyone personally that has. I'm speaking from observations of life based upon other peoples lives that get screwed up. Some things, you cannot fix.
I certainly understand morphine... I've had that and it's amazing if wasn't so addicted, I'd have an IV of it all the time, why not? That's all this is... an IV of the best mating drugs and dopamine hits to make a person feel good.
But to each his own, maybe at some ages or personalities it works, I'm not telling others what to do...

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[Jessica405]

No. I would never play second fiddle to another woman.

[Guardian45]

Even if you're the guest star?

[Jessica405]

@Guardian45 Nope. I am a one girl, one guy person.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[Anemone978]

Nah... if they are open who knows how many people they have sex with.. I never seen the need for that unless one or both don't truly love the other person...

[genericname85]

HELL no. words can not even describe the ammount of disgust and repulsion i feel for that nonsense. like either go fuck around or get married and settle. poor will smith. pussy whipped bastard. never fuck a narcissist.

[CopperStove]

That’s just not a dynamic I want to be apart of. I’d rather have my own partner if I was looking for a relationship and I’d prefer to do without the extra drama if I was looking for something casual.

[FreyaRed]

Nope. I don't eat from same plate other have eaten before either.

[Guardian45]

So you want some NOT to share?

[inhua]

come on guys. "man up" and stop "slut shaming" and accept these women in open marriages

[RavVid]

I don't want to be involved in shit in anyway. I wouldn't consider being in an open marriage myself. Be what you are is my golden rule.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[RavVid]

@Guardian45 For the reason stated. Because some people do something doesn't mean I should. I like to lead a simple life.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.

[BoobSlayer]

I don't see the issue. If a girl has two boobs that's one for each guy.

[Paul_in_Indy]

“Seeing” her? No. Sleeping with her? I guess. I’m not interested in getting involved.

[Guardian45]

So you would agree to have a fling with her from time to time?

[Paul_in_Indy]

Yeah. I would hesitate to get into anything more complicated than both of us needing release.

[Guardian45]

Ok. Thank you.

[Mayo503]

Maybe I’ve never done it so I don’t know…
How I would feel about it…?

[Chazmatazz269]

Not without knowing and trusting their significant other.

[musicbrain5]

Absolutely not. I don’t want to get involved in that.

[Berethor]

No, because I am not into hos, I has saw one girls like that in a dating site, it was weird.

[Guardian45]

Why is she a hoe, if they both agree to an open marriage?

[Berethor]

If she let multiple men to be on her then she is a ho, agreed or not agreed don't matter.

[Guardian45]

And what about her husband? Is he a hoe too?

[Berethor]

He is a pathetic cuck, women get called hos, not men, but you can call him a ho.

[Guardian45]

I meant if they BOTH sleep with other people. Why is she a hoe? Wouldn't he be one too?

[Berethor]

Because he a male while she a female, a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock.

[Guardian45]

If they're both sleeping with people outside of their marriage, then either they're both hoes or neither of them is. Key and lock are irrelevant.

[Paul09]

To only mess around with , be a fun friend, yes. Other than that no.

[jshm2]

It's just a shorter way of saying "polygamy without the responsibility"

[FilmGuy93]

Helllll no. That's just asking for trouble.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[FilmGuy93]

@Guardian45 because you’re the expendable person in an arrangement that could change at a moment’s notice, and you’ll be the last to know when it changes. Oh, and if their marriage isn’t 100% solid, as the other man; you WILL have all their bullshit dumped on you.

[Guardian45]

I understand. Thank you.

[AdithyaR]

Nope, can't do it.
I can do polygamous relationships but not open relationships.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[AdithyaR]

A polyamorous relationship is still a closed circle, it's 3 or more people dating each other together they don't date anyone outside of that.
But in an open relationship there's too many variables and randomness and my anxiety can't deal with that.

[Guardian45]

So a 'closed' poly is fine then?

[AdithyaR]

Yes, I'd be okay with that.

[Guardian45]

Okay. Thank you.