A guy at my workplace has been slowly working up the nerve to ask me for a date, he's been coming around to talk to me for weeks now into my office and always seemed so extremely nervous to talk to me.
Last time he somehow did manage to overcome his fear and just asked me if I wanted to hang out, whilst he looked like he was gonna lose it all from all the nervousness.
I gave him my number after him asking on Wednesday and now ever since he hasn't scheduled anything but has been messaging me nearly every day, and also sent me a piece of a text that he wrote asking for a feedback.
Why would he try to invite me out but not schedule anything if he seemed to want it so much in the first place?
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Sometimes, he feels embarrassed having to work so hard and thinks that you really do not like him. Then he pauses and goes like, "what am i thinking as she doesn't like me... no need to waste my money on a dead end."
If by chance you like him then ask him what he had in mind when he was speaking about dating. Your feedback sucked is the bottomline. Now, you have to chase and make clear if you want to get to know him better. If you do not then you are officially Ghosted.
He didn't say it was a date, he just asked to hang out and I said sure and gave him a number.
Are two people not supposed to at first just try to get to know each other as human beings, without overanalysing if the other likes them or not before even trying hang out?
Also, I did not give him any feedback yet - he wrote a book and sent it to me for a read asking for a feedback.
He also keeps expanding text messages trying to ask about my day, etc.
he probably thinks he is wasting your time with you since you dont seem serious to go out with him.
He isn't sure you like him. Reassure him, and let him know you are interested.