Men, should I ask my ex for s*x?

[PrettyBama]

Quick run down. It was a quick relationship. Long distance. Never met in person. He broke up with me because he could tell I was struggling with the distance. He is adamant about being friends. We haven’t gone a day without talking since breaking up. We talk all day. He’s gonna be in a city about an hr away from me soon. He wants to meet up because, again, we’re friends. We haven’t discussed sex since the break up but I want to do all the things we talked about. I’m just scared to make him uncomfortable or make him feel like I want to get back together. I strictly want the D I’ve seen and the sex I’ve heard about lol

So, men, is there a way I should go about it or should I scrap the idea totally?

[WaterIsland]

I’d decline if I was him. The reality is sex is one of the most intimate things you can share. And one of you is gonna have stronger feelings about it than the other. And that’s where things will get messed up. No matter how much you say it’s just sex, feelings can very easily develop or change. Just absolutely not worth it in my opinion. It’s better to move on and find someone for you.

[Red_Arrow]

There was a guy who you talked daily with but you never met him. You broke up with him and since then you talk daily but you have never met him. Sounds to me like exactly what you had before "breaking up". What is different?

[PrettyBama]

Before we talked romantically. Like we’d talk on the phone for hours. We spoke about romantic things. Made plans to go a few places. Sext. Pics. The emojis were different too lol

[Anonymous]

He’s a guy. He wanted to maintain friendship to keep the door open to more. He’ll probably be agreeable to sex but that might complicate the friendship. One of you may catch feelings.

[FilmGuy93]

Eh... I wouldn't do it. You guys weren't having sex before, you never even met in person, so having sex now would be a huge (and inappropriate escalation).

[Guardian45]

You can try to broach the subject or just do something blatant, like give him your wet panties. (My girlfriend did that at a restaurant, when we were first dating!)

Whichever, brace yourself for fallout!

[exitseven]

It never hurts to ask. I had two girls ask me for sex. Neither one of them was disappointed.

[exitseven]

@Ifotbybgnfnf As hard as it is to believe, it really did. I have not had a big body count but this was falls into the strange but true category.

[Guardian45]

Happened to me too!🙂🙃😉

[eagle1951]

meet him see where it goes

[In_Trance]

you're engaged?

[PrettyBama]

No. I’ve been on this site on and off for 10 years. I was engaged then got married 5 years ago. Lol I’m single now. Just updated it.