I came from abroad to meet him. Then I saw he was still on tinder that he said he was going to delete. I confronted him and he got really stressed?

[Algerianprincess]

He said we’ve met three days ago and I live abroad so he can’t delete apps for me. He’ll visit me too and we’ll see how it works out but we aren’t together yet. Yet he was telling me earlier I shouldn’t be talking to other guys and now he said it was his opinion and it’s my choice. Why did he get so angry and stressed if we aren’t together yet and apparently doesn’t want to delete it yet? Why did it affect his emotions so much that he couldn’t even focus on driving and took the wrong direction?

[Guy13]

Busted. You caught him. He lost the high moral ground and right of rulership.

[Anonymous]

I think the reason he couldn't focus after that is because you caught him out. He is trying to have you and still have his fun with others. His probably stressing because he wants you to himself, which is why he suggested you delete your dating apps, but he doesn't want to delete his. So you caught him in his disgusting behaviour and now his probably trying to come up with excuses to try and manipulate you into still getting what he wants.

[Anonymous]

Something doesn't add up here. You traveled abroad to meet him and it isn't serious? Either you got duped by some charming words (in which case the problem is you and you need to work on that). Or he's non commital.

I'm trying to figure out why you'd travel abroad to meet a guy you weren't CERTAIN about.

[Algerianprincess]

Hé said that if it goes well, we’ll be seeing each other more often and I can move in with him

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but why would you even go that far for someone you weren't already with. I wouldn't no way no how.

[Algerianprincess]

Because he said if things go well, we will be seeing each other more often and I can move in with him

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, if things go well. And if the didn't you were just going to pack and go back home. I would never travel abroad to meet ANY woman.

[Anonymous]

I guess you surprised him by actually showing up from out of the country just to see him, that’s definitely a bold move, considering you don’t know who you’re really meeting, I would be happy about it, but I’m not like all guys

[Algerianprincess]

So why would he not delete the app for me then? And use it when I was around? Then getting so angry and eventually taking me to the airport and kiss on the lips. He just messaged me if I got back safe.

[Opinion Owner]

Looking for a back up I guess