Advice from especially men please?

[Anonymous]

Most of my married guy friends and a few of the dads of kids I teach tell me I am absolutely “wife material.” I don’t ask. They just say it randomly out of the blue. Yet, I am perpetually in the friendzone of all the guys I like. Any ideas? I don’t try to get put there. Not to sound conceited, but I’m not ugly, I’m not fat, I’m smart, I’m kind, and I like being outdoors in the woods. I can cook and bake. I really do have all this stuff going on. I have tons of friends, but no guy steps up to take the extra leap, unless he gives creep vibes, as in has been married a few times, is waay older, or is just looking for sex.

[Guy13]

The right one will grab you. This may be a blessing He will come.

[Guy13]

why don't you try the meetup groups. I met my woman there through sports and interest groups. This may be an approach worth looking into. Put zip code in and see what comes up. My soccer mates day, lights, and indoor games go through there...

[Asker]

It’s not that I need a boyfriend. I just stumble in to these guys. We have so much in common, get along well, have a great conversations, laugh together, have chemistry, but I guess I’m just not what they want. Honestly, it sucks. I’ve picked up some great friends, but I’d like one to stick and be more. I was at the weddings of the last two.

[Still-alive]

Maybe you should try asking out instead of waiting?

[boggboss]

What are u doing to be asked out

[Asker]

Flirting with them?

[boggboss]

And how do they respond to you flirting

[Asker]

Some flirt back