I'm 24 and live with my mother and I also pay bills. MY sister lives here as well with her two other kids. When my sister is off work she leaves at night and stays out and doesn't come back until in the morning and gets no repercussions. My mother has to watch the kids all night when she has to go to work in the morning herself. I'm very confused on how I want to live and running out of time. I can either get an apartment, keep saving up for a house or buy some land. The house and the land is confusing because I most likely want to live in another state and don't want to stay here.
I've been dating this guy for a few months and it wasn't until a month ago he invited me to his place. Our relationship is okay but it can get rocky. He's kinda insecure and we fought so many times where he has blocked me and dumped me back to back. Right now we are in a good place. My boyfriend is a night person. He does everything at night. I see my boyfriend day and night. We hang out during the day I go home then i go see him at his house night and sleep over. Then I come back home in the morning. My mother can't stand when I leave the house because she is worried about me. She missed work twice claiming she didn't get no sleep knowing I was out all night. She watched a show where a woman got kidnapped and was found dead. Then on the news a girl was walking to the store at night and got killed. The mother was crying to the camera and telling women not to go out at night because it's too dangerous. My other sister thinks its too dangerous for me to go out too. I left to go see him a few days ago and my mother was sleep during the time. She called me to come back because it was dark. She told me if I left again I would get kicked out and will have no choice but to live with him. I don't want to live with him in fears we will get into a fight and he will kick me out. I also don't think he wants me to stay cause he's constantly asking me when I'm going to get my own place. what do i do?
