But he won't say no. Why would he say no? I don't understand why he would say no, unless he's like:
1. "eww KatiaK_1996? ... That girl? I would never consider dating her. Doesn't she know how undesirable she is. Would I like to go for a coffee date with her? That's sad. Why does she even try. It's pathetic. I'm embarrassed for her. Coffee. Ha! Common KatiaK_1996. Be realistic. I'm too good for you"
Or
2. if he has a girlfriend.
Otherwise, he'll definitely say yes! 🙂
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If I was single, and I declined a coffee date…
It would most likely be because I’m busy (I always have things going on) and the girl does not intrigue me enough to go out of my way to make some time for her.
If I happen to have some free time… I’d have to enjoy their company enough or look forward to their company enough to want to spend my free time with them.
If I was legitimately too busy, but genuinely was interested in them, I’d propose an alternative time to meet for coffee.
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Well hypothetically let’s say she has a pet shark that can walk on clouds. That would mean her Puss is in boots and so upon unveiling it say “FEWR ME, IF YOU DARE, NYA”. Only one thing can happen after that. She does the Nickocado Gritty and falls in a pool. That brings us to the coffee part, when she sees me she Willa say, “AAYYYYYN it’s the N*gga!”
I reply with a Seglass Notonday and she’ll says, “So what if I called you the N word, you got a problem with that YOU STUPID NI-“
And so basically in short summed up, she dies from a stroke because I said this:
“First off, your Mesozoic Throne cards are completely fake. Secondly, Gay Bowser, you have absolutely no Butlers. And lastly, you Young Bloth, have not once considered buying AppleTV+”
*she ducking dies*I highly doubt he would say know to coffee, especially, if you make it sound like you just want to catch up.
You already have a great "in" to the conversation.
Try coffee first and leave lunch for another time. That way you can get a feel for whether he is the same guy you liked or if he's changed.
If coffee goes well ask him to lunch afterwards.
In most cases I will accept, assuming we're getting coffee/tea as friends. If she makes it clear it's a date, then, if I'm not interested in her romantically, I'll let her know that I see her only as a friend, but would love to still grab coffee/tea as friends
What's the worst that can happen, he says no. But what if he says yes and has been thinking of the same. Give it a try, don't be afraid of what could be, be afraid of giving up on something that you want to pursue. Best of luck! DM always open
I would decline it because if I accept it then it would like leading a woman on and it is something I will never do.
If I wasn't attracted to her at all or my introverted ass getting too anxious 😰
I wouldn't , unless I'm not attracted to her. I hate rejecting as I hate rejection. So 8d feel horrible if I'd have to deny it.
I honestly can't think of any good reasons! Lol
Even if I don't like her. It's just coffee!Unless he has a girlfriend, I don't see any reason to not to catch up with you after so many years.
Simple, I don't drink coffee.
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