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A lot of women aren't worthy of that effort. That being said, I think it is a man's responsibility to plan a date, especially if he wants a quality woman. Faced with the choice between a traditional woman, and a modern woman, and most men will choose the traditional woman. So, if a man wants a traditional woman, he must be willing to do the things that traditional men do, and planning a date is without question one of those things. So I see no issue with women that maintain mostly traditional values, looking for men that are also traditional in this way.0
My knee-jerk reflex auomatic response to anyone who wants to suggest how I should do something differently is to ask, "Can you show me what you are talking about?"22
Who says women never planned one themselves? Wouldn’t that be more an assumption than fact? 🤷♀️222
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Lol, I’ve never been told that, but I’d take some constructive criticism10
I've not known this personally , but if it did happen I would be extremely pissed off , and would probably say " Who in the fck do you think you are? You absolutely stuck up bitch " , but highly unlikely to happen in Australia , and most certainly would not happen in Thailand , so not of concern at all..
Must be a USA thing...10
I think it can become a moving target sometimes. I went out with one girl that was like that, expected me to come up with the date ideas all the time. It was like she was a bystander in the relationship.
I quickly got rid of her, she had a princess mentality which is okay to a certain extent, bc you should treat her that way periodically, but, it gets old really fast when she wants it all the time.10
Oh, women plan dates all the time. Its up to the guy to LISTEN and pick up on the hint.
It is rare, but in bold cases i have had women suggest doing something together, but regardless its up to the guy to reciprocate and act.14
Generally women don't plan dates because generally they never make the first move. (Generally not meaning all but more often than not before some woman takes this personally) If a guy takes you out and its not your thing try to see it for a perspective of effort rather than preference10
Put more effort in what way?
Just waking up in the morning and putting on your socks breathing and walking at your job etc it’s already challenging lol
If a women says that RUN away from that bitch. Women who ask for efforts and whatever are an annoying specie no earthling has to deal with.10
I think she deserves the hand she gets dealt. I KNOW what a quality woman is. And a quality woman is NOT afraid to Give EQUALLY to a relationship. A quality woman KNOWS a guy's feelings are just as important as hers and is willing to put forth equal effort to makes sure they both have an enjoyable time.10
It depends on what she's asking.
Personally, I'm kind of a control freak. I want things my way. So I'd probably do the date planning for him.
But for the sake of this question, let's look into it.
Does she expect a huge overpriced bouquet of roses on every monthsary? Then yeah, she's gotta cool down a bit.
But does she expect weekend dates because they're both busy on weekdays? That's reasonable, why don't you take her out? It's not hard.0
i feel women long overstayed their welcome with expectations they can have towards men in general. it's time men rise their standards so we can finally stop this female induced divorce epidemic.10
Makes me want to be self-employed and move to Thailand Pattaya.13
Hahaa i would ignore the insult, and perhaps never plan one again 🤣🤣10
Often you have feelings for him but don't listen to him when he tries to talk to you
you completely shut him down. Resentment builds and things go south.11
I just like to play the field until I find one who likes the level of effort I put into my dates. I figure she is more compatible with guys who spend all day on them. I like spend about 5% of my day's energy on a girl.0
I think it is legit... if the date is shit... I'm just never gonna go out with you again... simples... if I need to tell you a date was shit we are most likely better with other people..10
They are entitled to their opinion. And men are entitled to look elsewhere for women who are not such high maintenance.10
This is pretty normal the hotter the girl gets. Get pissed of about it, see how much that helps.10
You're absolutely right, I'll plan a better date with someone else. Get out.10
Typical gaslighting behaviour by these sorts of people.
Always hit back with, "How would you have done it?"0
Ah she upset about something else or her friend told her about her last date with someone new guy and girlfriend comparing.0
This is just more entitlement from women and it's really disgusting.10
I met a guy who tried to date on a budget and his idea of a date was taking a walk and playing with his cats. He invited me to his home for that multiple times and I avoided it cause my religious culture does not allow that type of interaction with men.