I have a friend of 10 years who I have feelings for. I told him but he’s dating people casually right now. I live far and I’m visiting his area. ?

[Anonymous]

He wants to see me. How should I take this?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say exactly what your friend's intentions are, but it's possible that he simply wants to spend time with you as a friend during your visit. It's important to approach the situation with honesty and open communication, and to respect his boundaries and feelings.

You could consider having a conversation with him before your visit to clarify your expectations and intentions. Let him know that you value your friendship and want to make sure that spending time together doesn't create any misunderstandings or hurt feelings.

If he is open to spending time together as friends, it's important to respect his current dating situation and avoid pressuring him or making him feel uncomfortable. You may want to focus on enjoying your time together and strengthening your friendship, without placing any expectations or pressure on the situation.

Ultimately, it's important to prioritize mutual respect and open communication in any relationship, and to approach situations with empathy and understanding.

[Anonymous]

I would assume that he wants to pull down your panties and have a roll in the hay. Do you think he wants any more than that?

[Anonymous]

If I were you I wouldn’t go. In fact I would create some distance from him so I could start getting over him now that you know he isn’t interested. It will only hurt you to be around him.

[Anonymous]

He wants sex and nothing more. That's code for ''see you'.

[Jamie05rhs]

So see him! What's the harm? It's not like you're going to have sex or anything.

[Iron_Man]

Discuss it with him