Is it a red flag if a guy is moving into a relationship too fast, floods you with a lot of compliments, or keeps asking if you could come over? (Page 2)
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Why does he want you to come over?
I don't know.
We were going to hangout later today and he asked me what time was my first class. Told him the time and told him I was going to hang with a friend later and he asked “Cool. Who are they?” And I’m just like……uhhhh just a classmate. He’s been asking me to hangout with him since like 2 months ago and I said that I would hang with someone after because I felt he would ask me to hangout with him even tho I told him yesterday we would hangout at 3:30pm.
@BG_21 So you didn't hang out with him at 3:30?
I did but it wasn’t in his apartment. It was at the union but the whole time we talked he looked at for a long time. Also he asked if i could go to this dance with him and I said I couldn’t because I had a doctors appointment. I mean he's a nice guy I’m just setting boundaries.
@BG_21 Okay. I'm glad you didn't go to his apartment.
Did you actually have a doctor's appointment or was that a lie?
I got mixed up with the weeks so my doctor appointment is on the 21st of this month. But I guess it was a lie 😅😅. But I told him like “ehhh no” after. Because he told me it was at 7:30pm.
@BG_21 So you don't like dancing or what?
Not its not that. I don’t know how to dance 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I’ve never waltz with someone. I think thats the word for it.
@BG_21 ok. So it's not about him?
No but like I said before I’m setting boundaries. I feel bad for not being interested in him like he is with me. I mean he liked me when we first talked. I was just complimenting him it didn’t mean I liked him. I was being nice.
And ever since we met he’s been asking me to hangout, workout, or go to his apartment with him when I don’t know him that well. I’m okay with compliments and flirting but if its too much I get uncomfortable. I just see him as a friend.
@BG_21 Boundaries are for relationships. If you don't even like the guy, then you need something much stronger than a boundary. You need a Definition. Define his place in your life and tell him that clearly.
Okay thank you 😊
Then again, if you're not sure, then you can give him temporary boundaries until you figure out how you feel about him.
You're welcome!
That's creepy
Yes and it’s irritating
Yes, that is called love bombing.
Yes it is.
Yes.