What you stay with a partner that hid the fact from you that they were married?

[Anonymous]

So I just find out that someone I’ve been dating for almost two months now married their ex boyfriend a week ago. She apologized and said she only married to him to help him out with a court issue so he can get off house arrest which he is now off house arrest and is awhile a date to fight his case. She says she cares about him a lot but no longer loves him and showed me paperwork saying they will divorce in a year time that he signed. I did speak to him he said they have had sex or even seeing each other since doing the court wedding and she blocked him on all social media. Should I take her back? We have a vacation in 3 weeks and she met my parents and all of my friends

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Ex told me they never had sex but they are married as of a week ago and I’ve been dating her myself for two nonthdc

[MissStrawberry912]

3 words: oh. Hell. Nah. ☠️😂

I’m so sorry, but she’s a horrible B! She’s playing you…. And the other dude. Who in their right mind in a committed relationship will ever married their ex because they have sympathy for them? The ex even told you they had sex… so many red flags for you to RUN!

it does NOT matter that she already met your friends and family. If she treat you wrong at this early stage of your relationship, what else is she going to do? It’s not like your family and friends are dating her, only you are.

I know it’s heart breaking, you really care for her and you want a future esp with plans and meeting the people in your life.. I totally get it.. I felt the same way in old relationships.. but someone who really love and dedicated to you will never ever put you in such horrible position.. you deserve so much better! If you stay, you’re just going to string yourself along with games and probably more love affairs.

[comekitty]

If I was dating a guy who did this, I'd be parting ways with him - I dont care who he net in my family or how perfect they thought he was.

This was very dishonest and so bizarre. Only you can decide what you'll do - but I do think there are crimson flags all over this.

Good luck to you. Hope everything works out well. 🙂

[RoastedToast]

I'd personally say no. Keep it simple she has a lot of baggage she bringing with her. You have to question yourself if it's worth it.

[Asker]

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