My boyfriend dont want to have a public job. He rather sit on his ass and have money come to him. What to do as his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

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My boyfriend have his cdl but won't pursue that

[ohsheeT]

Well first of all teach all of us how we can sit on our ass and have money come to us because I would do that in a heartbeat but it just doesn't work that way and I want more in life and I want more money than whatever he's getting so I have to go out and work for it and that makes me happy though but you need to do is decide how much money is enough for you to be happy because it sounds like to me the only way he's getting money is you're working and that's the only way it's coming to him is through you with the common sense for me and how long do you want to do that for I mean it's your life it's your choice but I would hope you have more confidence within yourself and you want to grow and grow and grow to be happy and successful not be held back

[ohsheeT]

One of the best things about a relationship is communication becoming one and wanting to go to the same places one of the bad things but good things is when one person wants to keep growing because they want things in life and when the other person wants to stop growing and they just want to sit there's always going to be one person that makes a decision a choice that they hate doing but they have to walk away because that's not who they are they want more in life they want to experience explore become and that's where you're at right now you're stuck you have to make a choice and you're going to hate doing it but it's your future it's your life you need to make a choice and a decision on what you really want hopefully he will follow hopefully it will wake up but sometimes that doesn't happen you have to prepare yourself for both ways I guess

[Finchie40]

Does he have good money coming to him or just making it bye kind of money? If it’s just making it bye then you might want to reconsider that relationship if he is making good money then why complain.

[Asker]

He ain't making good money. I ask this question earlier. He work yesterday for 5 hours just for $40.

[Finchie40]

Then that’s something you really need to consider if you want to be with someone with no ambition just scraping by

[Asker]

My rent is 1200 a month. That's why he ain't living in my house.

[Finchie40]

Was he like this when you first met him?

[Gent207-2]

DUMP HIM

You have a human tick - you wouldn't tolerate a realbloodsucking, why the hell are tolerating this one?

[exitseven]

Find out how he gets to stay home and have somebody send him a check for doing nothing and then DM me and let me know how he does it.

[slatyb]

Dump him and find a man who takes responsibility for himself.

[LiamJHayden]

As you've already answered the question someone else asked about how much he makes (a pittance) you might want to move on.

[OlderAndWiser]

Find a new boyfriend!

[Anonymous]

That’s sadly how most of your generation thinks. No one wants to work and expects money to just appear.

[Anonymous]

welp, i guess you picked a loser , plenty of them around

[Ms_Facesitter]

Private job? So he still works?

[Asker]

Would you work for a job getting paid under the table having you work 5 hours for only $40?

[Asker]

I ask that question up here. He wor yesterday for 5 hours cleaning someone house for only 40 dollars. And that's all thr money he got right now.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, but someone I know doesn't see the public either but earns a good living. Had to ask.

[Anonymous]

Tell him he needs to find a job or y'all are done.

[Anonymous]

Break up with him

[inhua]

get a private job?

[Degenerate]

Break up with him

[shades777]

Whats your point?

[Pterodon]

Dump him

[Anonymous]

Dump him

[riverrat3]

Say bye