What are your thoughts on a new man I've been messaging on Whatsapp but met on a dating site? ?

[TheSimFans]

I have met up with my last men and they didn't work because he got into a relationship with another woman and wouldn't let me but he texted me off and on and then stopped texting, so I gave up. I saw on Facebook that she got into a new relationship. I took a break from online dating then try again and saw a different men that is seem to be new and sent a message to him asking about question about long hairs and was looking for a long term relationship on his dating profile. I contracted him on WhatsApp and he responded to me. i met him on a dating site called freedating. org. uk and he seemed like a good guy, but he was seeing another girl who broke off because the girl was too slow on WhatApps. i said being slow is better then rushing into a relationship and end up breaking off. What do your thoughts on my new guy seems to be different from my previous guys. my new men is 31 year old and my last men was 33 years old at the time I was dating the last men. The new men I'm interested in have not yet met up with me since i started messing not too long ago and was on holiday/vacation. Have you had any experience with them and do you know if they're good men or not?

[Curmudgeon]

Look out - NOTHING good ever comes out from Whatsapp. Odds are he will either:

1. Tell you he needs some financial help to come meet you or could you send him a "small gift" to "show you care", and such gift demands will grow over time, or

2. tell you he knows of a sure fire investment scheme that will allow you both to prosper and one day meet in luxury, and he might even have a link that *looks* legit, while he just steals your money.

And the converse is true for single men. If you cannot email or text his phone or call him / her directly, something is *Wrong*

[OfMiceandMen]

You never know with these guys on dating apps etc., It's okay to get to know someone on dating apps and WhatsApp, but the best way is to actually meet with the person and get to know them. Not saying you have to rush the online part, best to be safe and see if they are compatible.

[TheSimFans]

@ofmiceandmenI understand and i been messaging that new since the old guys got int a relationship without communion to say but stopped texting. that was men that i meetup but i was already was move on and found a new men that seem to be ok with going slow and get know him first. he say he is shy men. is going to take a while. being honest from the start is better way to be and ignore the men in my questions that thinks is a men is scam but i don't think so if met on dating sites first.

[Curmudgeon]

@thesimfans I am more than happy to be proven wrong here, but sadly I speak from experience. People who want to go to the untrackable Whatsapp and can't just email or text (or, gasp, CALL) you directly usually are up to no good.

[TheSimFans]

@Curmudgeon ok meetup with men that got int relationship after i meetup with him. seem fishy to me and didn't commutation. the new guy that i been texting was on dating sites and give his phone to contracted him on WhatsApp's can text just ok. what are you thought on two men i not yet met up with new men.