If your partner said that they hated PDA, would you just accept that?

[BeeNee]

If your partner hated kissing, holding hands, hugging, or touching you in any way in public, would that be okay with you or you'd rather end that relationship asap?

[Genie23]

I'd be completely okay if he feels uncomfortable kissing in public because I wouldn't want to kiss or makeout while we are being stared at anyway it will ruin the moment but what's wrong with holding hand every now and then or hugging while greeting and leaving? So, if he doesn't want me to touch him or touch me, I'll just be friends with him instead because hugs are something we even give to our family and friends.

[Finchie40]

Sadly no , I am not saying she has to kiss me or hold my hand every where we go , but if I thought she looked beautiful or she made me smile by saying something sweet and I go to kiss her and she turns her head , then to me she doesn't value me , she only cares about herself , It’s like she is embarrassed to be with you so nope she will become my ex , People that can’t give the same to someone in a relationship are best not to be in relationships period , they clearly are selfish people that only care about themselves. So I don’t tolerate that kind of behavior from a girl

[Leapfrog00]

I guess I could respect that, but I would question them, wondering if they're ashamed to be seen with me. If it was to get attention from other people, that I understand, but she shouldn't care about people think.
I honestly don't care how people see me in public. I'm not a people person anyway and I still say stupid people should be executed! lol.
When I'm with a girl and we're in public, I only focus on her and not the people around me.

[Pinay_ako]

I won’t hate it. It’s actually rude to do PDA. But I understand. It gets embarrassing sometimes 🤣 seeing other people shamelessly do it. Like bruh get a room

[Bethany22]

No, I wouldn't end it, as I don't like PDA either.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the person. I had one ex girlfriend who would shove her tongue down my throat in public every chance she got. It was bit uncomfortable at times but she thought I was the hottest guy she had ever met in her life at the time. She wanted to show me off.

I felt so so about it. It did most my ego to an extent I admit. She was very attractive herself so it also gave other guys a heads up she was taken.

Then I have had other girls who wanted none do that in public. No cuddling no kissing. To a certain extent I can understand people wanted to keep the intimacy private. However that can be a red flag.

Every woman I ever dated who want zero PDA never liked me that much. They wanted my attention and time in the moment of course. But in reality I was just a “placeholder” to them and it was bs.

[mattclark242]

I be ok I do not like that stuff anyway. holding hands is ok. I never kiss anyone. I do not like hugging. I do not like PDA or well being in public. I do not like touching anywhere not even at home.

I think I be fine with this person.

[D_Bone_Steak]

When I'm in public I'm not looking for that smoochy smoochy stuff anyways, so I'd be fine with her not wanting it.

Besides... it's hard to look single and wink at High School girls with some chick is all over me.

[jshm2]

PDA is just sad and crass.

Why the fuck do you think everyone needs to see your insecurities like that? Especially when you're too shy/poor to put a ring on it instead?

[OfMiceandMen]

The person should be okay with just a peck. No making out in public though. I could care less about the whole holding hand thing.

[Koneko911]

No... I'm all for PDA. I'm probably the person people who hate PDA would dislike. I want cuddles, kisses, touching and all that. Idc if we're n public. Let people look

[BoopBoopBeep]

We don't need to dry hump on the coffee bar but if you won't kiss me in public that's a no go.

[Poliker]

I do not like PDA with myself nor with others so I think this is a valid point.

[Anonymous]

I would respect the fact he didn’t like PDA. Especially kissing but I would express to him that I do like holding hands so maybe we could try to meet in the middle. No kissing hugging etc but maybe try holding hands once n awhile.

[Grond21]

Honestly, I would have figured that out before dating them. And it would be a huge turn off. Potentially to the point where I wouldn't even try with them

[gangster123]

Dating should not mean just kissing , or touching. It is about understanding each other and see you both can get along for long.. if you don’t like it just step away sooner than later.

[shades777]

It's unnatural to not want to kiss, hug or want affection from your lover, so that would be a pass.


I imagine they must be in a relationship with someone else and don't want to be seen being intimate

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'd have to embarrass her at least every once in a while

[linka_pat307]

It's okay because no need to make things public after some time become talk of town because things didn't work out

[UnknownSwede]

I dont mind PDA but if I love the person, I would respect it. Most of the time you're together you're not out in public.

[AngryCarl2]

I'd probably be okay with that so long as everything else in the relationship was perfect. PDA is kind of lame anyway.

[hbg84]

Pda is trashy. Holding hands and hugging are fine. But making out and one stuff like that are just trashy

[TheMadLad]

If that’s what PDA means then I’m a PDA myself.

[Rockstarrrrr]

It's not the end of the world... But we gotta meet somewhere in the middle...