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Is wanting a traditional lifestyle with a wealthy man, a gold digger? (Page 2)
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You have no idea of what you’re asking. A wealthy man is not gonna seek you out or even want you unless you prove to him that you’re worth his time and attention. Plus, you want this lifestyle out of vanity because why not have a standard traditional marriage? There’s nothing truly traditional about this and plus you’re in school. Get your education and earn something in your name.
I do know what I'm asking 😌
Are yoy a wealthy man? Hiw do you know how they think?
I know plenty of women AND men who married wealthy and they eventually grew in love.
I have a family member living that lifestyle and both are happy in it.
I have been asked out bu well off men. I definitely know who and what I can pull off.
The question is, if wanting a traditional lifestyle is being a gold digger.
Do you honestly know how a traditional marriage works? What qualifies you to be fit for a wealthy man as his wife? Do you understand what it means to be a wife?
The marriages of other people have nothing to do with you. Gold diggers want money and you do too apparently. Is it just money you want? Only you would know that.
You don't need a wealthy man for that. My cousin is a stay-at-home mom and her hub has a good union job with good benefits and they have a nice house and do fine. Of course they live in one of the least expensive parts of the state - if they were in San Francisco it would be an entirely different matter.
Not necessarily, but most women have no idea about how to get such a man. You said 'I'm going to get fit and be more visually appealing to attract the kind of man I want.'
That is barely even touching on what you'd need to be to attract such a man. And if that is your real age in the profile then it's even more unlikely.
I've had wealthy men try to date me, but I was, unfortunately, in a relationship and in love (which turned out to be one-sided)
It's not going to be that hard. Especially when I still look like I'm 4yrs younger, a caring, loving person, and an attractive person who's a nursing student.
Your standard for a woman isn't going to be their standard... they are each their own person and my age wouldn't matter at all. None of you men even answered my question either. lol, pilease. Stop projecting your insecurity.
If you're not a wealthy man, you can't speak about what they would want in a woman.
This is the problem with trying to tell women what we desire, when you don't like what you hear, you try to shame the men trying to let you know but it won't change what most of us desire.
You're not all men.. You're an individual and therfore can't speak for all men
Also, that wasn't the question I was asking
@asker
He answered your question, you just didn't like the answer. If you have it all figured out and can supposedly pull all these wealthy men then what are you doing on here?
No he did not answer the question lol
I didn't ask what I need to do to pull one off or what I bring to the table.
I was pretty clear in asking if wanting a traditional lifestyle withba well off or wealthy man makes me a gold digger. I'm a nursing student so it's not like I'm gonna sit on my ass
"not necessarily" was the answer. And what does you being nursing student have to do with anything here?
No it doesn't make you a gold digger but understand this most men that you will live off will use it against you.
It comes at a price as most of these pricks are controlling, manipulative and abusive since they feel they have a lot of power over you since you are 100% dependent on them.
So you better make sure who you dealing with if you decide to live that 100% dependent lifestyle off someone.
You can want that, but you aren't likely to get it. A lot of more women want that than there are single wealthy men. Those men have a lot of choice. What makes you stand out among other single women your age?
It's up to them to decide lol each of those men are their own, and they may have a lot of choices, but are their choices what they want?
I have a lot of choices, too, but I'm looking for stability and being provided for. I've had wealthy men try to date me, but I was, unfortunately, in a relationship and in love (which turned out to be one-sided)
It's not going to be that hard. Especially when I still look like I'm 4yrs younger, a caring, loving person, and an attractive person who's a nursing student.
But that's for insinuating I have nothing to offer. That wasn't my question lol
I didn't say that at all. You may be outstandingly attractive. It's good that you have a career.
Yes in your case because you admit that you are going for the rich man. It's not that he just ended up becoming rich. So you picked him because of the money, that makes you a gold digger.
Let be realistic wealthy men are hard to come by since they can be pickier when it comes to picking a partner. How ever being a traditional woman doesn't make you a gold digger. Gold diggers married just for the money.
They don't have to be mad rich. Just wealthy. They aren't hard to come by for me
And thank you. I thought so two lol
your welcome
True anonymous. There are some women who hate men. Because they only want their needs met and don’t care about the needs or the other.
They offer nothing in return and the type of men they want have a lot of options. The ones who will dare then are typically the controlling and abusive type
How would you have felt if he said he wanted to date a young attractive woman with big country ta-ta's because the odds are she'd be fertile. And bear him a big healthy family? Would you believe that?
The moral of this story of what you said is equally plausible as not.
pretty much.
You did not mention anything about liking him as a person.
The important thing was finding a wealthy man.
I did. I literally mentjion that if he'd a great man I'd marry him but if he's a shitty rich man... I wouldn't.
Housewife with children? a gold digger usually don't want to dirty her hands, to be tradwife.
The fact you said "tradwife" already tells me you're an incel lol
Yes, you're a gold digger.
And newsflash: your friend isn't just a friend. He likes you. He wants you. (... Or at least he used to, before today.)
I wouldn't say he wants her.
He might just be a normal person trying to reason with her on how wealthy men aren't all that, but she's not getting it.
Dare I say, she's watched too many indian soap operas where the female leads only gotta look pretty, gossip, suck up to mother in law and look after their kids.
@anon1903 True.
Short answer: Yes
Long answer: You basically want men's money to live just like before feminism. Men looking for love need not apply.
I don't think you read the whole thing. If you did, then you don't comprehend it at all lol
Refer to the response left by @MrOracle
He mentioned pretty much the longer version of what i was gonna say.
Sounds like that to me. Besides, not contributing to the family financially puts you at a disadvantage. Also, what’s your contribution to the world if you’re just taking care of yourself? Seems very shallow and selfish to me.
@NYlatefun I think if a woman is that confident and, let's be honest -- arrogant, then she deserves everything that she thinks she does.
@Billlewis well, good for you, but it’s a big turn off to me. Someone that is young and healthy that could be contributing to the world that’s only looking to be a trophy wife? So sad.
What you do that is on you. However you may want to consider wealthy men are wealthy for a reason the reason is they put money first. That also means they always will put money first not you not your children, money. Money can be a disease.
She's only a golddigger if his money is the only thing that attracts her and she'd bolt as soon as he loses it!
Depends on how many kids you want or wind up having. I know a girl who has 3 kids, and married a wealthy man. I don't know if she's working anymore but, she did
Definitely! Using anyone for their money is being a gold digger. I would bring him some money to avoid being a burden. I don't want to be a leech. It would be embarrassing for me.
Yeah you wanting a wealthy man and not settling for a middle class man who could provide for you and your children makes you a gold digger of some kind.
Being in a traditional lifestyle isn't being a gold digger, but you would have to find a man who wants that lifestyle too, if you find him then go for it.
No. I think most of it is arrangement. The good ones are so difficult to come by. If it works for us we shouldn't care about others. Have you heard that thing, first they ignore you then they laugh at you then...