I told him - I am not ready for dating. He instead, asked for a “chance” to have at least one date before deciding and he has been pushing on that date like crazy. I have tried postponing that. Actually I would rather not meet him at all, so I was thinking maybe he’d lose interest because I was answering his messages rarely.
He, though, bought a ticket to my country, saying he fell in love with my country because of me. He plans to travel there this month and asked me for some advice, which I gave.
After that he has been asking me out on dates non-stop even though I gave tons of excuses. But I guess I should have been more direct, instead of saying I am not interested in dating, I should have probably said that I am not interested in him.
I have been trying to be gentle with him because he’s a friend of my friend and I don’t want to come off rude in the eyes of my friend.
But it’s too tiresome already. I am just really annoyed.
I would be annoyed too. And as a guy I would NEVER be anywhere near as pushy as this guy. He sounds like a weirdo with no clue how to act socially. This isn't about chasing you or any of that nonsense. Dude is kind of creepy tbh.
And I had enough when I explained him my situation and thought he’d understand, instead he still insisted on dating, I was so annoyed, barely held myself from blocking him. I can’t picture myself ever liking a guy like that.
Impossible.
I am so annoyed honestly, don’t even want to open that APP so I don’t see his messages.
You really should tell him you aren't interested at all. If he asks why, tell him! Don't worry about having a mutual friend. I can't see how they wouldn't understand unless they are completely unreasonable or he lies.
First off, you keep telling him you’re busy and then you tell him you have free time. And then you said you’re not in the mood for dating. You’re either interested in dating him or not.
Because they're being to process watching what's on TV these days and since online pornography, Social media, and YouTube have come to be. That increases everything 😬
I am going to use this chance and say that, my boobs are like one of the most beautiful boobs any man can ever see in life and I have seen lots of naked girls. There are lots of things I dislike about myself, but boobs are not one of them.
@lafemmefatale_1 This is a perfect example. Why do you feel like you need to justify anything to someone who’s being a jerk? I think he answered this way to prove a point and you’re not getting it. If a guy is a jerk or inconsiderate you just need to move on. Don’t argue with fools. You’re already awesome and you have nothing to prove. Disengage. Block. Don’t give the troll the satisfaction.
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Is this the good doctor guy?
I'll assume yes. You said you were going to tell him you weren't interested?
I told him - I am not ready for dating. He instead, asked for a “chance” to have at least one date before deciding and he has been pushing on that date like crazy. I have tried postponing that. Actually I would rather not meet him at all, so I was thinking maybe he’d lose interest because I was answering his messages rarely.
He, though, bought a ticket to my country, saying he fell in love with my country because of me. He plans to travel there this month and asked me for some advice, which I gave.
After that he has been asking me out on dates non-stop even though I gave tons of excuses. But I guess I should have been more direct, instead of saying I am not interested in dating, I should have probably said that I am not interested in him.
I have been trying to be gentle with him because he’s a friend of my friend and I don’t want to come off rude in the eyes of my friend.
But it’s too tiresome already. I am just really annoyed.
I would be annoyed too. And as a guy I would NEVER be anywhere near as pushy as this guy. He sounds like a weirdo with no clue how to act socially. This isn't about chasing you or any of that nonsense. Dude is kind of creepy tbh.
You should stop sending mixed signals and get rid of him.
He is indeed creepy. I realized today.
And I had enough when I explained him my situation and thought he’d understand, instead he still insisted on dating, I was so annoyed, barely held myself from blocking him. I can’t picture myself ever liking a guy like that.
Impossible.
I am so annoyed honestly, don’t even want to open that APP so I don’t see his messages.
You really should tell him you aren't interested at all. If he asks why, tell him! Don't worry about having a mutual friend. I can't see how they wouldn't understand unless they are completely unreasonable or he lies.
You can always block him. You’ve already made your intentions known.
First off, you keep telling him you’re busy and then you tell him you have free time. And then you said you’re not in the mood for dating. You’re either interested in dating him or not.
Because they're being to process watching what's on TV these days and since online pornography, Social media, and YouTube have come to be. That increases everything 😬
This guy is way too pushy. You should block him.
Persistence has worked for men before and he has internalized that lesson!
Just straight up say NO!!! And if he insists then he isn’t worth it because it shows he’s pushy and disrespectful
He buys into fake misogynistic ideas that women need to be convinced. It’s a huge red flag for later behaviour too
Why would someone keep a dude on the back burner when she has 3 jobs and enough time to respond and ask about it here?
egotistical
trump doesn't like no, so he punishes anyone who says no to him
On many occasions, many many times for women no means yes
Tell him to f off. Just say you're not interested and block him.
They are a narcissistic possibly sadistic person without empathy that's why
Bcs they're annoying af
He is such a simp there are many girls available why to waste time on tiny boobs girl... lol.
Objection!
28E is not tiny.
28E...+
Sorry 28E is called flat chest not even boobs...✌️
I am too confident in both of them, so try harder haha
Not just one?
Lol you don't have any option either.. do you? 😂
I am going to use this chance and say that, my boobs are like one of the most beautiful boobs any man can ever see in life and I have seen lots of naked girls. There are lots of things I dislike about myself, but boobs are not one of them.
Thanks for make me laugh 😂😂😂😂
@lafemmefatale_1
This is a perfect example. Why do you feel like you need to justify anything to someone who’s being a jerk?
I think he answered this way to prove a point and you’re not getting it. If a guy is a jerk or inconsiderate you just need to move on. Don’t argue with fools. You’re already awesome and you have nothing to prove.
Disengage. Block. Don’t give the troll the satisfaction.
@Andres77 Just wanted him to realize that he failed at his plan to make someone feel bad today, because I don’t feel so.
Just a bit of wisdom, don’t argue with fools. It’s counterproductive, and they still trolled you..
Just an opinion
@Andres77 You’re right. I’ll keep in mind
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Just say no. Full stop. Guys prefer a straight answer instead of beating around the bush.
desperation
We’re relentless and rapier than most.
Guy has got mental issues.
Very simple answer. Ignore, delete and block