After 1st date, the guy says that he wants kids and that he won't consider a serious relationship with me unless I get pregnant. Is he serious?

[Anonymous]

I think this is a huge issue to bring up on a 1st date, but I dont know if this is a man's tactic to sleep with me or if he is taking me seriously. What does this mean?

[kylee2437]

Regardless of what his intent is, he sounds absolutely off his rocker to mention non - existent kids after date number one.

[LazerBean]

He obviously just wants to sleep with you. Either that or he's genuinely an idiot a slut

[BarryLiverstone]

How old is he and does he have a lot of experience before you?

[Asker]

he's 40 and I know he really wants to have kids

[BarryLiverstone]

Well if you know that then you can decide if you want a relationship. Aren’t you under 25?

[Asker]

I do want a relationship, but is he just saying that to get in my pants? It sounds like he wants kids before he gets too old, I know that sounded genuine, but I dont know if he is taking me seriously.

[BarryLiverstone]

You can’t read his mind, only watch his actions. Bedsides he’s not having sex with you this summer anyway right?

[Asker]

right, he hasn't asked me to go on a 2nd date yet

[BarryLiverstone]

Yep. So if he doesn’t ask you have more information

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty for MHO

[MementoMori777]

Who cares, either ways it's a red flag