Dating

Agreed to go on date with a guy 3 days ago. It’s the date of prospective date and nothings confirmed. What should I do?

Meet a guy on Hinge (me F31 he M35) and we exchanged numbers pretty quickly. We agreed to meet up for drinks and possible food later this week. However over the course of the last couple of days while he’s asked my preferences and what I’d be down for, he hasn’t confirmed anything solid beyond making one recommendation and then being worried about it being crowded at the time we may meet up. After asking him if he had a better option if he is that concerned, he asked if I’d be down for beer. I told him my favorite brews, he hasn’t responded to that at all from 5pm last night and gave a good morning text today. We live pretty far from eachother so the commute for us both would be closer to 40mins+. Part of me wants to cancel because we live in a dense metropolitan area with 1000s of places to go to and him acting like he can’t think of a place at all, especially after asking me out, is turning me off. Adding to the fact that it’s the day of and I don’t want to assume we may meet somewhere and travel that far, nor give the impression that plans like this are ok. It feels like low effort, keeping his options open, hoping I help him pick or settle energy? If getting seats was a concern, we or he can get a reservation somewhere. On the other hand, a small part of me is wondering if I’m being too harsh for a first date. I got out of a relationship a year ago and wonder if I’m just being too critical of a first impression. But I’m remembering in my singlehood 20s that no good dating experience started with a guy that waited last minute to confirm things. Another thing I considered is doing a hard reschedule option and saying last minute (day of) isn’t my thing, and if he doesn’t like that then we’re done. What would you all suggest and what are your thoughts?

Agreed to go on date with a guy 3 days ago. It’s the date of prospective date and nothings confirmed. What should I do?
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