So the story begins when some dude meets a girl online and agrees to catch up at a local restaurant. He didn't realize she was disabled. Made him feel what a turn-off that could be. Was just about to leave until the restaurant staff announced that they're the 1000th customer getting a free dinner on them. The restaurant staff.
While eating, they both encountered that their personal traits have a lot in common with sports and literature. Afterwards. A buddy of his hooked him up with a girl that he was going to ditch her the disabled girl for. But realize this new girl that doesn't have anything in common with literature and sports. So he made a terrible mistake and made an apology to the disabled beauty.
This became a happy ending, and a love story 🥰😀
Would it be very awkward or find it very common to date and feel in love with a disabled person?
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Anonymous
(18-24)
10 mo
Possible yes but very difficult. You ever see that movie Me b4 you? I cried so much, can't watch it again.
1- Those who try to make something of themselves but were dealt a disadvantage in life and have challenges others do not.
2 - Those who exploit their disability for money from religious people and brag about their disability to get attention and take pride in how they are different from non disabled people because it gets them unmerited favour by others.
3 - So I will consider dating the first group if they have traits I desire in a romantic partner and if I believe I'm able to deal with the areas that they cannot due to the disability.
For starters, she shouldve told him about her disability long before the date. Its almost like a form of catfishing. I personally would not date someone with a major disability but if it happened after we were married, I’d stay. Like this guy Sam i was crazy about lost his ring finger to the lawn mower. He was still a sexy fck and it hardly stood out. I’d totally still date him. Now there was one exception to the rule— Fab... man he was truly fabulous. His dumbass babysitter somehow dropped him over the stairwell balcony as a toddler and he ended up paralyzed. I dont remember the full story because we met like 10 years ago. But His legs were short in comparison to the rest of his body. Yet he built this wild upper strength where he could do headstands from his wheelchair. He also played wheelchair sports and had a cool futuristic car custom built to where he could drive it. He was one of the sweetest people ever and trained me in different hobbies. I hate we lost touch but he had a girlfriend and i had to get over it. Still he was truly amazing and is unforgettable. That is a guy I wouldve surely loved to be with. To answer your question, I dont think it will be awkward/uncomfortable for those who can love someone unconditionally. I can't love most people unconditionally. In fact, I have only felt this unconditional feeling for two dudes (a childhood friend who despite his change in appearance, I may never be over) and Fab
It's not for me but some people don't mind. My brother's wife is disabled (also in a wheelchair due to the disability kind of like this story) and he doesn't mind at all since he loves her personality
It could be awkward for me if she were wheelchair bound because I run and surf. A lot. If she were missing an arm or had prosthetic legs or something, I could deal with those.
By the way, this would not apply if she became wheelchair bound after we committed. A commitment is a commitment.
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