How do you deal with dating when girls overvalue themselves?

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Point being girls tend to think they are the premium prize and deserve only the top 10% of men or only Mr. Perfect. Of course when 100 insincere flatterers bomb them with compliments and asking them to hang out naturally the girl gets a sense of being in high demand and believes she has the upper hand in dating and expects she can land one of the top 10% of men or Mr. Perfect.

How do you 80% of men deal with that or navigate in the dating when this happens with most girls?

My first thought is to quantify the number of girls. The higher the number of girls, the more girls are not stuck up having tunnel vision for only the top 10% of men. Which means engage with 100 girls to get 1-5 dates.

My second thought is to move to regions, where girls vastly outnumber men or where men (not insincere flatterers) are actually being valued or a region is a "single man's paradise" such as Thailand Pattaya City.

razelove · Accepted Answer

The advice of going where there are more women is solid, because you're in for a numbers game and being ruthless. Grind it out, make approaching women a formula and get over all fears of rejection. Get used to approaching hundreds of women every month. That might get you one or two women every week to sleep with.

Then you cycle through areas. It's like slash and burn farming. You will get a bountiful first harvest, but after you deplete the soil, you need to move on to other areas or you'll just wind up waiting for new women to decide to "date" and be another simp. You need tons of options to have confidence and not care.

I recommend college towns, rent a motel by the week, apartment, airbnb, whatever until you've tapped the area out. That's hitting on women at clubs until you don't see any new faces, tapping out tinder in a 50 mile radius, don't buy them shit, don't take any shit. You just have to move move move. They're trying to prove themselves to you, or you bounce, there are too many dates, and then other cities you need to get to.

In all probability they're dating multiple guys at the same time anyway, and you'll get call backs from the women you reject and that reject you as the numbers pile up into the hundreds. Use a fake name, create degrees of separation, and make that dating life different and partitioned from your real life.

Systems and methods that work for you will start to click into place. You'll raise your success rate from like.5 or 1% up to 2-5%, then higher if you stick with it for years. Probably the only touch part to deal with is feeling lonely. That's about it though.

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

Dude, most girls are normal and you don't have to worry about this with. Only are they the majority in hellholes like LA, Miami, or any environment where superficial shit a huge part of the culture.

I have only met a few girls who were very obnoxious in that regard, but the rest I've only heard about online, which already exaggerates information. Most women are like men in that they want someone they have chemistry and compatibility with long-term. Just be picky and watch out for red flags like everyone else, so you avoid the toxic types.

silvermoon84 · Accepted Answer

You don’t! You just move on and find a humble girl who doesn’t overvalue herself. Also any girl who believes love bombers and doesn’t take them with a grain of salt is an idiot. Overdundant compliments nothing but bs in my opinion

smashleyy · Accepted Answer

men get mad when women have loose morals and low standards and they get mad when she values herself. pick a damn struggle for christ sake

Avicenna · Answer

You merely move on as rapidly as possible to the more reasonable women.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Dating is a numbers game and not all women are like this. Have enough first dates and you will find women who do not have a hyperinflated ego.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

1. I don't have that problem, most single women are too quick to date, too quick to fuck, and have too low standards, no interesting hobbies, etc. I can't even find one I want thats single despite multiple offers a day. If I had the problem you were talking about, I'd just give up on dating entirely, as the type that I like are ones that you would probably call the top 1% of women.

2. Pretty sure the "woman" in the image is actually a guy in drag.

2. The guy in the video hit on an old lady then said "easy ass" 🤮 Cringey af but of course she was quick to ok him, most guys his age won't do that.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Id go to a country where the girls aren't so difficult. phillipines, etc..

girls will put on all sorts of layers of BS to raise their value, but it generally is fake. they cannot hide their emotional regulation challenges for long.

upping your game to filter them out helps.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Many of you guys are unable to walk away so continue playing the game. In time you will reach the same conclusion but deep down, you already know this...

Meropatrick · Answer

Life is much less complicated than that dude. Not all girls are like that. Some really are. VERY MUCH. but other girls are easier to please. Stop trying to date the girl who looks like a movie star if you are not yourself a movie star and Look for an average girl. Once you start being realistic with dating things work out fine

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Women don’t think they deserve only 10% of men, women CAN get top 10% men if they want to sleep with them. So they can reproduce with the top 10% and make the other 90% go extinct.

chrissykerdock · Answer

that's why most guys ask for a blowjob on a 1st date because girls overvalue ourselves... i think we're too quick to get on our knees to suck someone off

RavVid · Answer

Yeah every girl thinks she is a 10 now. I tend to go for girls from lower socio-economic suburbs, they are far more reasonable.

MilkRoseTea · Answer

Is that Dylan Mulvaney in the picture? 😂😂😂

Fireguy17 · Answer

Tell them politely thank you and good night and find someone else.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Ugh, back to the top10% myth. You guys will never learn, it seems.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I really do not encounter very many women who do so.

Anonymous · Answer

I would just move on man. It's not worth it dealing with a woman with a big ego.

Recurrence · Answer

I be kind and do the best I can

shades777 · Answer

you don't, thats how

EaterPeter · Answer

Why would you?

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