Kiss/peck on the neck during goodbye-hug?

[Anonymous]

Hi!

From our first date she mentioned she saw us as friends but it could develop for more.

So during our second date, I wasn't as much handsy/break touchbarrier, and neither were she. But I did caught her starring for some time.

Towards the end of the second date we sat on a bench, a little space between us, but not too close.. So I tried the kiss-test, I think she saw it but didn't respond to it, or maybe she were caught up in her speech, so I didn't want to take the chance.

Then when we were about say farewell, she was fast on just going for a hug and had her head already looking away, so I went for a fast kiss/peck on her neck, coz I don't want to be just friends. Her reaction was kinda indifferent, but she closed the door I saw her throw herself on the phone , guess she chat with a girlfriend or something.

Do you guys think I did the right thing to show her I don't just be friends with her. The peck itself was very fast and "innocent", but I wanted to plant a seed.

Or did I Screw up?

You did good

You screw up

[molonski2]

Hmm Black / White question , my personal opinion is you should have gone in a little harder to get the better result.

[Asker]

I think I should, but I think she's want to take things slow coz her last breakup (9yrs relationship) is 5months ago. So I understand she still are on the healing process

[molonski2]

I wouldn't waste time , she must be as toey as a roman sandal. 5 months is long enough , you need to close the deal.

[Asker]

I'm not sure about that, not from a relationship that long.
And many relationship experts says 6-9months.

[molonski2]

Nup , dont listen to that sht , there is no time frame , just go for it.

[Asker]

We'll see, thanks for input