Is it better to wait for a sign from a girl before you talk to her?

[Anonymous]

My reasoning for that is that on average, girls get approached more often due to how the dynamics of dating are. Guys automatically assume that it’s easier for girls just because they get approached, but think about this:

If you were approached by 7 women on the street, and you found none of them attractive, would that really be a quality of matches?

“Men are in the desert, women are on the ocean. Both are having a hard time to find drinking water” is what i would say the problem is.

back to the question, i think it is better to wait for a sign before you talk to a girl.

It means that she already has some attraction to you and she knows you also exist, instead of going up to her out of the blue. So the chances would seem to better that she is positive if she has already selected you.

is that wrong?

[kylee2437]

Ehhhh disagreed. I see attractive guys all the time and pay no mind to them, but if they approached me, I’d entertain it. You never know until you try. Don’t feed into the women that think approaching means automatic harassment

[Asker]

Alright, so the only differing factor here is that the guy is attractive? So it comes down to looks?

[kylee2437]

I mean why wouldn’t first impression come down to looks? You can’t get to know someone if you don’t know them lol

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but don't wait to long because girls tend to lose interests pretty fast.