Am I being stupid for letting him go or making the right choice?

[lexih_919]

So I been with him for four years but I am starting to feel tied down, controlled and that I have no freedom. It made me want to explore my options and see what else is out there. We broke up. I am starting to see that the guys I meet only want me for sex and it’s making me realize his value. Maybe there isn’t someone better out there. He is a high value man and brings a lot to the table. Him and I fight a lot and he does annoy me. I don’t know if I’m being ungrateful of him what should I do?

[ProbablyClueless]

Those two things aren't mutually exclusive. You are unquestionably making a mistake if you broke up because you thought the grass was greener elsewhere. You are unquestionably making the right choice if you didn't appreciate the relationship you were in.

Not everything boils down to control in relationships. All you can do is learn and grow from this situation.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know so keep on trying.

[midnightmoon05]

Learn your lesson. Hopefully you will appreciate the next one and not be a bitch to him. For now…grow up a little.

[GoingNooWhere]

If you felt that way being with him. You made the right decision to end things.

[Anonymous]

Lol you want a man you can walk all over but isn’t his instinctual nature. Lol Good men will never let you do what you want. He will have boundaries and rules you will need to adhere to if you want to be with him. These fuckboys you want to try and make “the perfect man” will never work out for you. So as the women you need to accept his rules and boundaries and get in line, or find a fuckboy you can boss around. And by the sound of it you already know how that turns out.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah you probably F'ed up on that one. Enjoy your freedom though :)

[Anonymous]

Remember fellas... there are only 2 things that make a woman unhappy:

1) Getting what she wants.

2) Not getting what she wants.

[midnightmoon05]

Hahaah…you been around the block a couple of times

[Opinion Owner]

@midnightmoon05 People often assume that but I haven't at all!

[Unknown29]

Most good guy have boundaries and rules and don’t let you do whatever you want if you want to be with him.

[Noodle_fan]

u make the right choice, you said you want freedom , so , enjoy your single life for now

[driven159]

too late now if he wasn't worth it before he is not worth it now live with your chioce

[barn_stormer]

it's a risk. if you try to find someone better you might end up alone and 40.

[Wise4myage]

I say give it more time and don't be in a rush to run back to your ex.

[TallAnon]

Sounds like you did make a mistake. You can always see if he still cares about you at all.

[Bigjake1995]

I would wait fighting is never good in a relationship

[shades777]

sure i guess. km not reading all that crap

[karekaaaa]

All wanna sex
But one will love u