Guys POV on this guy?

[tomorrow2839]

Hi!

I went into a date with a guy I met in a dating app, all was good, since it was raining cats and dogs and I parked far from the meeting place, he offered me to take me to the car, which was OK, and we kissed but i felt like he wanted to have sex the same night and im not into that, like this casual thing, i told him no, and kind of felt it like he got mad. So i thouht that i won't hear from him, 8 days gone by and he reached out, we continue flirting by text and we went into a date on Tuesday and it was good. This time, he was calmer, dont push into anything and he didn't even tried to kiss me, and since his energy was better this time, im feeling more attracted to him. But he has not texted me since our last day. So this guy is not interested in me, right?

[RespectfulGuy]

While there were success stories from Dating Apps, my overall impression is negative because there are too many hookers, too much insincerity and almost everyone are fearful of being cheated (hence too much caution that prevents normal relationship growth) .

Reading your details, I congratulate your successful efforts to meet up and attempt to start relationship proper.

What's lacking is open discussion of what you each want from this relationship, and how to achieve that.

Simply put, question like "what type of person would you like to meet when you used the app?" need to be openly and candidly shared by each to the other.

And the necessary next question is "Am I the person you hope to meet? Why?".

The objective is to know what each other want, and then determine if the starting point is similar aka compatible.

There is no hurt feelings if you're not compatible.

But if you are, opening up will help set the pace and boundaries while developing the relationship.

And if candidly done, you won't need to ask this question anymore.

[Avicenna]

It's hard to say without having seen your communication, body language, etc. Reach out to him and compliment him if you haven't already because you need to send stronger signals. Guys who are on dating apps are usually talking to multiple women and will normally date the one who is most into them.

[laraWM]

Maybe he's not intereseted anymore? Just try to text him if you want

[Decoded93]

He's interested, he just knows you're harder to get and the last date shows he accepted this, try reaching out to him