Telling him I just wanna be friends even though I sometimes flirt with him?

[Anonymous]

How do I tell a guy that's been very nice to me that I don't have any feelings for him? I know he likes me very much and asked me twice to be his girlfriend. It's my fault for flirting with him when my boyfriend and I went through tough time but we're okay now and I don't know how to tell the other guy I don't like him like that. I do wanna stay friends with him but I'm scared he might end up get mad and tell my boyfriend everything. Help?

[Avicenna]

You're going to have to be honest with him. Make sure you let him know what you like about him and that you just want to be friends (do not mention your boyfriend). Also apologize for flirting with him.

[Decoded93]

Be honest to him, say you flirted cause you were broken up but now you're in a relationship and want to focus on that

[mommymommymommy]

Do not string a man along. If you no longer like him, move on

[mommymommymommy]

by the way, you cheated

[Asker]

It's not cheating if we were on a break?

[mommymommymommy]

no, you def. cheated

Ok, ross, and rachel

[Asker]

Can you explain how I def cheated if I didn't even meet that guy and I was just talking to him while me and my boyfriend were on a break?

[mommymommymommy]

Because you were emotionally cheating

[Asker]

Okay now I feel stupid but yeah I think you're right.

[mommymommymommy]

yeah

[Iron_Man]

Slip on it and make your final decision. Just tell him the truth come out with it, but don’t flirt with a man that you wanna be friends with only

[KrakenAttackin]

Just be truthful and say "I am building my friend zone/Simp bench, and I want to offer a spot to you".

[In_Trance]

Just go your separate ways. You're wasting your time