Is it weird he wants to meet on Sunday night?
I met a guy a few months ago and we had insane chemistry. But our two weeks together mostly consisted of drinking and hooking up.
Anyways, I was started to feel like a rebound considering he just broke up with his girlfriend so I suggested we just be friends even though I still like him. Didn’t want a broken heart.
Anyways, he had been very inconsistent with texting and kind of disappeared. We saw each other at a group even a few weeks ago and hung out most of the time together. Occasionally he’d take a step back from me and it looked like he was messaging someone. The next day he texted me and said it was great to see me.
We’ve been communicating more now and I recently told him I’m going through an emotional time. He kept checking on me saying if I needed anything to please let him know. I finally said I needed someone to talk to and he said he will have time this Sunday evening. He let me pick the venue this time. Usually he’d say “let’s meet at your place” but he told me to pick wherever is convenient for me.
I know this is sad but this will be the first time I’m meeting him in public, alone and no drinking.
I don’t know if he has a girlfriend or is seeing anyone but he could be. Like
I said, he’s usually a bit of a jerk but I’m seeing a bit of a different side of him.
Am I’m overthinking the reason he chose Sunday night instead of Friday or Saturday? My mind immediately went to that he was spending those days with a love interest or girlfriend.
Any thoughts on this?
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I prefer Sundays because it is quieter to go out then and you get served quicker.
Ok thank you, RayVid! That’s good to know 😊
Plus he is expecting to discuss your sit with you. I'd prefer a quiet night where I can hear you easily to do that. It is not extra ordinary if he has plans for Friday or Saturday and for him not to want to make it a cramped or rushed meeting with you.
Gotcha, makes sense. I have all kinds of scenarios running through my mind and I hope what you say is right. If he had a serious girlfriend I’m not sure he’d meet me in public. What are your thoughts on that?
I should have listened to my gut. He was supporting a “friend” in the mental ward the whole weekend and had been supporting her before as well.
He knew I was also going through a tough time but chose to only spend a few hours with me tonight.
If he had a serious girlfriend he would have to think she would be seriously unhappy with him meeting with you in what she might take as a date. If I were him I would would make it a phone call especially seeing you were hooking up. It is not to say he isn't bloody stupid, some guys are, but TWO ANGRY GIRLS is write largely on the wall in this scenario.
So I think not.
I told him something pretty important last week. I got pregnant by him accidentally and couldn’t keep it. He knew I was going through hard time with it and still chose to spend it with his “friend”. He kept questioning me, like he didn’t believe that I got pregnant.
Oh. I misread it then. That is a pretty F'ed up situation. So his objective was really to question you on your pregnancy rather than support you. There is a betrayal in this since he is just interested in himself - sorry you are experiencing this. Do you have anybody else to talk about this with?
That’s ok. Yes, I think he just wanted to meet to interrogate me. I poured me heart out to him about what I went through with the procedure and my childhood trauma but he seemed disinterested. I start seeing a therapist in several weeks.
Well the therapist is good - feel free to DM if you wish. It was pretty crap of him.
nothing suspicious so get to know him
Thank you 😊