Why do I pick bad girls to be with?

[Anonymous]

why do I pick bad girls to be with? I keep picking bad girls to be with. I had one that I like hooking up with and maybe want to date but she just want and friends with benefits and she had her real boyfriend who hit her and she did not have money she need for her self or her kids and made me sick

I had another girl that want to go to the mall and do a lot thing but she told me she had a boyfriend but I super excited when I came to her do to pick her up and her eyes got real big but then she told me she did want go out now. and just want to not be with me.

I also pick this girl who just want me take her out and buy her food and thing all the time. She have little to no money and no way of making it. She said she miss me but I think she just want me take her out all time. I feel bad cause she dose have less than me but I don't know what do with her? Also I do not like she need thing all the time. I want her have stuff and be ok.

maybe she could fine someone else to take care of her.

I keep picking the wrong one

also they all seem to be fat and or a bit overweight.

[madhatters4]

the first two are easy... don't date girls with boyfriend's

the 3rd is a little more complex. you should be able to date without it always having to be a big expense sort of thing. so if you like her and the biggest issue is her not having money to contribute to dates try to do things taht don't require lots of money... if money seems to be the issue. if she NEEDS and expects you to pay her way and treat her to $$ dates then you should move on.

[Asker]

well the one girl had an ex boyfriend. but she call her self a single mom and she need money for her kids so I could date or be with her. the other girl I think she made it up cause she did want be with me or she just want to see if someone other than her boyfriend would like her.

[madhatters4]

sounds like you may want to try finding a girl outside of the normal avenues, places, etc you usually find girls.
maybe consider the red flags they have early on so as to help you avoid getting in deep with them.
but definitely maybe consider a new way to meet women and have a check lists of red flags. perhaps one red flag doesn't disqualify someone but if they hit a number of your red flags than give serious consideration to dating them

[Asker]

ok cool so get a check list of want I will and will not like. I think I want a girl with no kids and a job and good looking and can take care of her self and have no boyfriend and just go out with me and have little to no dram and dose not need a lot think just someone who want put her life together so we both can have thing and just go on date and have fun.

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO. good luck out there

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You and me both bud.
It's because they're easy to get and seem more fun to he around

[DextroShade]

I think it's more that you don't have good choices to pick from because most modern women are trash.