Why do guys lose interest in me so quickly? I don’t sleep with them, so what am I doing wrong? Do I not look good enough or I’m average?

[Anonymous]

[richardcory]

You say you don't sleep with them, but maybe that is what they want in a relationship. Many people do not want relationships without sex.

Its 100% your choice, but if you want a relationship without sex you will have to find a guy who feels similarly - they exist but are less common

[DextroShade]

You just answered your own question: you don't sleep with them. The kind of men you want expect sex and you won't give it to them they will find a girl who will. You need to lower your standards or put out.

[Reem12345reem]

how can we know if u don't put a picture of yourself?

[Anonymous]

Well for one it could be that you’re not sleeping w them. But then if you were they’d probably move on after they got what they wanted. Someone might continue to stay. As for you look good enough or you’re just average, can’t say w out a pic.

[ProbablyClueless]

You probably aren't giving them enough of who you are as a person for them to want to foster any kind of further relationship with you.

[jahaims]

You are either boring or they are looking for hookups

[MementoMori777]

What makes you assume you are the problem?

[DarkLegacy]

Perhaps they have high standards

[BarryLiverstone]

How are the dates?