What are your thoughts on unattractive guys who wait for women to approach them & only ever flirt IF giving the "Green Light"?

[Anonymous]

Manipulator & opportunist types? Waiting for some girl that *might* like him types?

[Anonymous]

Smart better doing that and surviving than facing a MeToo firing squad

[Asker]

Unattractive guys have to either wait for the "ONE" that finds him attractive & wait to be given the "green light" to flirt?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah or face a firing squad atop a mass grave

[Asker]

Just curious

I've noticed that my female therapists didn't mind flirting with me, teasing me,& even making unsolicited advances

But I rarely ever get the same treatment in public settings

[DarkWinterNights]

What else are they supposed to do?

[Asker]

So those tactics of "waiting until one gives the green light" to approach & then he latches onto is a normal strategy that unattractive guys use?

[DarkWinterNights]

I think it’s less a strategy and more a default.

[Asker]

As in that's what they have to do

[DarkWinterNights]

Yeah pretty much.

[Asker]

How do men perceive guys like us (unattractive types)?

[Anonymous]

Limp willies.

[Asker]

Elaborate

[Opinion Owner]

Weenies. Little boys who don’t know how to act like a man.