What would be the word to describe my boyfriend for acting like this?

[lexih201213]

So my boyfriend has been acting different towards me. Him and I have talked consistently for a year and a half but we just started being a relationship a month ago. He is showing me a different side I haven’t seen from him before. He is like oh I don’t want you wearing yoga pants because it’s sexualized and that it bothers him. He also said that he doesn’t want me going to the gym because other guys will stare at me when I work out. I been letting this slide but I don’t know if he’s just looking out for my best interests or if I should be concerned and these are red flags.

[Dinn3r]

This is tough. I’m sorry you’re feeling controlled by your boyfriend but I’m sure you can understand some of his concerns. While some of his concerns are understandable it doesn’t mean he has the right to tell you what to do. These are common challenges many people face in relationships.

you mentioned you are in the early stages of your relationship so it’s okay to learn about the things your boyfriend likes and dislikes. Of course communication is key. Your boyfriend should be able to communicate his concerns to you without being controlling or judgement and vice versa. Instead of him making a decision alone maybe both of you can talk it out and come up with a solution.
I wouldn’t say it’s a red flag because it shows he cares about you and some of his concerns are legitimate, but it doesn’t mean he’s completely right.
talk to each other in compassionate mindset , listen to each other and find a solution together. Good luck :)

[Avicenna]

Maybe he feels more comfortable sharing his opinion on things

[Marcuslrh]

Big red flag controlling run away while you can he is insecure when you are already together clearly doesn't trust you either.

[Nikki1989]

Insecure.

[BumbleStix]

Controlling!