I have been seeing someone for a few months and I’ve been keeping it a secret. I kept it a secret simply because i only have one child and because my child is under 5 months i assumed people would judge me for moving on a little fast. I was with my child’s father for over 2 years we broke up while i was pregnant
So yesterday i mustered up the courage to tell my ex (baby daddy) i was seeing someone else. I told him mainly because i have our daughter way more than him and was hoping he’d be willing to get on a new schedule so that i can work spend time with my boyfriend more and still have time to see my daughter.
His response to me telling him i was seeing someone else was :
[“As long as I can see my child it don’t matter and let me do for my child have fun I hope y’all the best just tell em what it is “
Then few seconds later “Can we just get a understanding “
Then a few seconds later another text “Aye sooo this hospital bill im give you 1000 “
Then a few seconds later
“Just wanna understanding and can see my child “]
He just kept texting me before i could say anything. But his texts i noticed he mentioned a lot me not letting him see our baby which is never do
TL:DR; how can ease his mind to know i still want him to be a dad to our baby I’m just dating someone else now and probably will want our baby around the new man in my life
