Are woman ok being with a guy that hasn't made it yet?

[Bruce24]

Please let me explain. If I stay in shape and plans on doing so long term, do not make a lot of money but working full time while going to college, Also I have my own place (its a shitty apartment but is always kept clean). Should I date? It's going to be a while till my finances are in order and I am tired of being alone. I'm 22 and I don't want to wait till I get out of college to date also I haven't had a lot of luck in the dating world. I feel like I'm having to compete for woman around my age with guys in there late 20s early 30s who are very financially stably and in there prime. Sorry to complain/ vent but sometimes I feel like it's not worth trying to be in a relationship untill I get a good job after college. Also I heard at 25 the lake freezes over so tk speak meaning you are who you are when you turn 25 and I absolutely do not want to be this guy for the rest of my life.

[dynamicyandere]

As long as you are driven and you know that you’re going places—and she can feel that from you too, then you’re good to go man.


It’s not so much are you already successful, but it’s about whether you have what it TAKES to be successful.


A woman that loved a man for being ambitious and driven and passionate might fall out of love with him if he becomes lazy and soft and loses his sense of purpose.


It’s not the money.


It’s about becoming the kind of man that can seize a successful future.


Become that, and you won’t have any trouble attracting women.


Because if you are truly going places, women can tell, and are drawn to that.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes date, she’s also figuring things out

[pinconon]

I'd be fine with it. not sure about other girls