My boyfriend said he hated his girlfriend?

[Korain]

My boyfriend was playing the game with his friends, while I was on the game too. He said to his friends that he hated his girlfriend and looked over at me, we were on FaceTime (which what he wanted to do). I said why would you say that and he responded with that he wanted to see my reaction and was joking. So I told him jokes like that are hidden truths. So he said that I shouldn’t use my psychology stuff on him.

I been think about this for a day now and it makes me feel like he actually hates me. Then at the same time I feel like I’m just being over dramatic because of things in the past from other people. We only been together for two months, I don’t want to be with someone who jokes like that but this is the first time this has happened. So does he actually hate me or am I just overthinking it

[provokeesmokee]

He probably was joking, but that doesn't mean you're over reacting.

Even as a joke, it clearly has harmed your perception of him and your relationship. That harm is real and you're now thinking of this a day later. To the point you're asking the internet for help.

The call is yours to make, but do you think this kind of joke is something you should tolerate?

I wouldn't.
If I were you, I'd tell him again that some things are not worth joking about for the sake of "reactions". Then break up.

If he's comfy joking about that at the 2 month mark, what will he be comfy with joking about in 6 months?

[RoseySarah]

No your being smart! He is being dumb

Either way his joke or really showing his feelings hurt you deeply!

He meant to hurt you just for a reaction or from your past!

2 months is honeymoon time he should not be that tired of you yet! He should be making you and him happy not joking!

Sorry I don't see thing going on much longer cause of him! He is tired of you at least...

He wanted to do it on public also which is so awful! Like he wanted to start a fight and go see what she does!

[Bobbysworld]

It's not a matter to joke about. Even with a twisted sense of humor the fact that your saying you hate or don't like the person your with to your friends should question his maturity level and attitude towards you and your relationship in the future

[Summeroflove]

You should bring this up to him. If he has a problem with you he should come directly to you and address it like a adult.

[BoopBoopBeep]

"I been think about this for a day now"... I didn't spend that much time thinking about the last time somebody tried to shoot me. If you're this hung up on what to him was an offhand comment you're going to be miserable in a relationship with him.

[HitsyHonesty]

Don't think about it for a day. Just talk to him about it! The quicker things get sorted, the better things are going to be!

[Anonymous]

My Ex used to give me dirty look sin pix and also on cam when recording different things. If yours said this, I'd surely wanna wonder if you both are having problems and he is saying this.

[HelpfulWoman]

thats just... so fucking weird and a red flag for you.