Would you prefer to date a 7/10 or 9/10?

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I’m speaking in terms of physical attractiveness  Explain your choice

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

Of course I wanna date the most attractive person... to me. That last part is the important thing. What I find attractive someone else might say is 7/10 because it is so subjective. What is important is that they are attractive to me. That doesn't mean automatic date though. They can be 10/10 and a complete jerk or ass. I am not going to date even the hottest guy/girl simply because of looks. They have to have the personality to match it. That is what makes it hard to find that perfect partner that has it all.

CrypticMoon · Accepted Answer

The physical attractiveness isn't what seals the deal for me, it's ultimately the humor and vibes of the person that determine how attractive they are to me.

Also I fall in the category of not finding conventionally attractive people attractive, so one person's 9/10 might be a 5/10 for me. I really think you can't group people up just by looks since it's so subjective.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Well, if I personally find a woman a 7/10 in terms of looks, she's already pretty attractive, so obviously criteria other than her physical looks will come into play (and looks have a relatively low priority for me as long as she isn't obese or not feminine). There's a lot more to someone than her looks, but e ceteris paribus, I'd obviously prefer the woman who is more attractive to me.

RedInnocent68 · Accepted Answer

Hotter the better, but also have to like her. A bitchy 9 slips to 5 awfully fast. You also have to worry about yourself. How did I pull that? What happens when she wakes up? Girls aren’t always as shallow as guys (thank goodness!) but some of the hotter ones certainly are.

AviatorTom · Answer

Date a 7/10, ONS with a 9/10.

zagor · Answer

I want to date someone who is attractive TO ME. So that means being physically attracted to her, but she also has to have an agreeable personality, and not be stupid or hateful. I don't expect physical perfection, as I'm not that either. And I think numerical ratings in general are nonsense.

Anemone978 · Answer

I would like to date a 9/10 but I tend to throw those opportunities away because how I feel about myself LOL

Lionman95 · Answer

I don´t rate people on 1 to 10 because I don´t think that´s working well. A woman needs more than physical attributres to get me fall for her.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Those ratings are meaningless. A 10 to you might be a 5 to someone else.

PrinceWalnut · Answer

Physical attractiveness is only one component of a person. All else being equal, sure I'd take the 9, but I'd much rather date someone less attractive that I connect with better if that's possible

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

The one I am attracted to the most, and since this is purely physical, 9 then.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I don’t do the dumb number thing. I only date people I’m physically attracted to.

CaliAttorneyGuy · Answer

The girl I’m seeing/pursuing is objectively probably a 7, but she’s a 10 to me in both looks and personality. It helps that we never fight or argue lol.

LiamJHayden · Answer

As long as she is not morbidly obese, her character and personality are more important to me that what others consider to be aesthetically beautiful.

Pacquet · Answer

I feel like you have to put more factors into this. Very few people are going to say 7 or lower if there isn’t any contingencies.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I can't realistically expect to date a 9 when I'm only a 5. That doesn't mean I wouldn't if I had the chance.

Anonymous · Answer

I think rating people on a numerical scale is very strange, objectifying and dehumanizing. Plus looks is subjective.

Anonymous · Answer

9/10’s often have boring personalities, are high maintenance and are always in demand by someone. This makes them insufferable and quick to replace you. Skip the drama and just don’t date them.

Anonymous · Answer

As good looking as I am, I always preferred 7/10 for the other ones didn't appeal to me.

Starrrboy · Answer

Why did I think of the 7/10 first? lol 😅... dammit I think I might be insecure lol

Deserter2 · Answer

All things being equal the 9 obviously. But if the 9 is getting a lot of attention from other men it's gonna get old quick

Anonymous · Answer

A good personality is more attractive than a good body. Not saying looks don't matter but a 7/10 with good personality is wayyyyyyyyyy better than a 9/10 without that.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

ID SETTLE FOR A HEAD OF LETTUCE AT THIS POINT

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

7 and 9 are both really attractive People

Anonymous · Answer

a 9 i would probably get too jealous of them

abbyjgriffin98 · Answer

It depends what their personality is.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

9/10. The more attractive, the better.

Anonymous · Answer

Looks don't matter too much to me.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Depends on her character

Sonorous · Answer

7/10

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not a hypocrite so I prefer 9/10

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

10/10.

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