Do you participate in competition in the dating game?

[Anonymous]

When the person you have an interest towards.. has people competing over them. Personally I don't, if I receive the knowledge that a woman has a lot of people competing over her, it turns me off and I keep it moving, simply cause I know I'm no model and being realistic the chances of me wasting my time competing over her are high, I have noticed shy women lack this feature and shy women are just built different, they are my weakness, they don't seek validation or attention and its quite easy to detect if they have a form of interest towards you, they don't play that 'carrying you on' game while carrying a whole other hoard of dudes at the same time.

She would have to really catch my interest for me to join the competition... which is hard, women like this do exist tho. Anyone agrees with my point of view? 🤔

[Little_Bumblebee]

I'm not interested in competition when it comes to dating.
If he's not interested, he's not interested. I'm not going to fight, just to get noticed. It’s not something you can force. I'm just gonna be myself.

[Asker]

That's a respectable mindset little bumblebee lol

[Sonorous]

Tbh, the more guys a girl entertains, the less interest I'll have of her. I don't mind other guys finding her attractive, but I like it when a girl knows what she wants when she sees it. I don't wanna be a hard choice or even a close one.

[Asker]

That's some facts, the facts just don't stop facting

[Sonorous]

🤣 Thanks & I especially wouldn't want a girl to miss that type of attention from other guys as well. It may lead to her inviting orbiters around her. And that could also open her up more to infidelity.

[LiamJHayden]

I guess so but as such a large % of guys seem to be afraid of rejection and thus rarely ask, I have a far easier time of it than I would otherwise.

[Asker]

I guess, here it's more of a physical attraction type of thing, you can expect most women you encounter to have tried a taboo, weither it's a gangbang, drinking jizz, homosexual shit, you name it, you even got minors doing the descriptions above, it's quite pathetic but imagine competing over a woman putting her first, being the person she can depend on until she realizes you are the one.. for you to then realize she's had 8 dudes at the same time tear her up, cheating rates are quite high here as well so thats something else to worry about, would you take your chances and most likely waste your time? 😂

[LazerBean]

Anybody who wants a decent spouse has to prove their worth in one way or another.

[Asker]

Most people aren't worth the effort tho, I've noticed the women that are wife material, have no dudes in their shit, cause most people just want pussy and know where they will get it and where they won't

[LazerBean]

I haven't noticed that at all. All the most wife material women that I have known got married younger than normal. You may live in an area that has a lot more good women than good men though.

[Asker]

The opposite

[LazerBean]

So you have a lot of good dudes in your area that aren't interested in good women?

[Asker]

No everyone is shit here is what I mean lol

[LazerBean]

Oh lol rip

[Asker]

😂😂

[Worst]

noㅤㅤ

[Asker]

That's what's up