When did you find out the person you married or started dating seriously sucked and were just a bad person?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[DaveJord]

About 10 years into my 24 year long marriage... like in some ways I am super proud of that marriage. Because like, you got to be super strong and tough emotionally and this woman seriously tested my mental fortitude.

But around year 20 or so, she changed from being just a bad person to being straight evil. So it's at that time I discovered that my strength was not found in am ability to stay, but in my willingness to leave.

[AviatorTom]

That never happened. We had a good 20 year marriage that ended in an amicable divorce. Neither of us sucked.

[YesterdaysChild]

I would think you would have had an engagement long enough to get to know the person pretty well before you married them. People are on their best behavior at the start, but then when they get comfortable the real them starts to come out. Short timers usually wind up with the wrong person.

[Anonymous]

Never happened. Though I was surprised at how horny he can be. Like everything seems to turn him on. During covid I would be doing yoga and the next thing I'd know is that I'd have a dick in me, same story taking a bath or shower, or just taking my bra off

[ObscuredBeyond]

I've heard stories about lockdown victims going crazy horny. It's a bit of a prisoner mentality. Just like how animals in captivity tend to be more sexually aggressive. And it's not just men. I've heard tales of women going mad and desperate for sexual attention when confined to boredom.

Being not allowed to work until the 30th after my surgery late last month, and with nothing to do in town, and my family was under quarantine a few weeks ago because I'm the only one that didn't get covid, I eventually got bored of only doing online stuff or writing a book, and took up painting again. Because sex isn't really an option right now. (Though if it were...)

[Opinion Owner]

@ObscuredBeyond yeah I got pregnant and pregnant a month after giving birth.

[ObscuredBeyond]

That's not entirely a bad thing. Play the cards right, you'll have adult children that can look after you when you're older.

But yeah, I've often wondered how often yoga leads to sudden sex, and if that's normal.

I know from others talking about it that it's definitely a porn fantasy; but so is everything these days. Maybe I'll ask that as an actual question.

[Anonymous]

When it was too late, and he raped me and cheated on me a lot of times apart from that we get on well enough most of the time. I’m still with him, he pays the bills and is away a lot so now i get to live my own life too. 😉

[midnightmoon05]

how do you define bad?
Just dating… ? Then it’s not compatible. then move in.
Dating/married for over 5 years. then learn to love and grow together.. we all change.

[shades777]

that be s bad time to find out