Atlanta woman orders 48 oysters and gets ditched by her Tuesday night date. Rules for this discussion in the comments?

[Radiate143]

❌️No racist or dog-whistly racialized comments

❌️No misogynistic or misandrist terms

❌️No cursing

❌️Strong opinions welcome but let's keep it respectful.

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6 mo

FYI GAG removed the MHOs I selected and replaced them with two others. I appreciate all contributions but I have to call out @GAG for blatant tampering and giv8ng their faves MHOs that they didn't earn.

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6 mo

I had given @exitseven and @KC-Sunbeam the MHOs. Now, I am not disregarding the substantive answers and the amount of math that went into some. I just chose those for my personal reasons.

[MzAsh]

This one I think is rage bait. Her whole monologue seems a little put on, but playing along, yeah that’s not cool. Racking up a huge dinner bill doesn’t make you a princess, ladies. It makes you a BUM.

[Radiate143]

Yes, it is very baity.

[YAsQuen]

average tinder woman

[EmmaMary]

This is literally one of many reasons why women get called disgusting names. smh

[Radiate143]

I don't loke black-girl dragging but jer whole affect and tone was just. Uhh... problematic.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Radiate143]

You're welcome but GAG removed my MHOs and chose yours and @MzAsh

[EmmaMary]

@Radiate143

For which I can only sincerely apologise.

[Radiate143]

Please don't think I don't appreciate your contribution. ❤️ But it just feels wrong.

[EmmaMary]

@Radiate143

I couldn't agree more, it is totally wrong.

[coachTanthony]

He didn't properly gage her interest so hopefully lesson learned on his part but for women who try this better be careful because men just going to walk out on ya.

[Radiate143]

He didn't properly gage her interest - oh? What do you mean?

[coachTanthony]

She wasn't interested and repeatedly gave him hints of that but he still kept texting her to take her out so she wanted to be cute and show him a thing or two and it back fired on her.

[Radiate143]

Oh OK, I see. You actually know about this while fiasco.

[coachTanthony]

I know about every Tik Tok fiasco. I have most of these fools on my IG LIVE to discuss.

[Radiate143]

Hahaha

[exitseven]

I thought oysters were an aphrodisiac. I would have stuck around.

[Radiate143]

You know what, initially I said maybe he left because he said he wasn't ready for all that action. It was literally my first thought.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Radiate143]

You're welcome. Sadly, GAG tampered with the post and removed it from you.

[exitseven]

I was robbed

[KC-Sunbeam]

dog-whistly? My new favorite word, lol

[Radiate143]

Loves it!

[KC-Sunbeam]

I just looked that up. Now I know what it means to dog whistle. But dog-whistly is something else! If I ever get a pet, that's what I'll have to name them.

[Radiate143]

Sorry, I chose yours as an MHO but GAG tampered with the post and removed it.

[Radiate143]

I posted a post about GAG tampering with the MHOs and the removed my post for allegedly posting about Post Removal when nothing had been removed and I never posted about that. This site used to be really helpful. Now it's just become a data mining propaganda cronie club. Sad.

[EmmaMary]

@Radiate143

Agreed 100%.

[madhatters4]

she's disgusting. first of all eating 4 dozen oysters is unhealthy. second, who the hell is so self absorbed to think that because some guy asked them out they are entitled to gorge themselves on dinner and expect the guy to pay for it.

proud of the guy for ghosting her and leaving her with the check

[Radiate143]

I love oysters but I said, you shouldn't be eating that many oysters. Maybe 4-6 max.

[Radiate143]

He took her out on Tuesday for drinks. Needless to say, she did not complete the onbaording process.

[madhatters4]

i LOVE oysters too. but 48? yikes

[Radiate143]

No way too much. I mean after 4 I'm satisfied.

[abc3643]

At $15/dozen and she got 48, that's 4 dozen, so it's $60.

As much as it is, it's not that much. A good steak dinner will cost at least that per person. So, if he's going on a date, then he should be prepared to spend. If you don't have a significant income, then go somewhere cheaper where she can't realistically spend that much.

[abc3643]

RESPONSE TO UPDATE:

Can you update the question again indicating to whom you would have given MHO?

[Radiate143]

Ok, I will

[Lliam]

The guy was low class for asking that low class chick out to begin with. She talks like she's from the ghetto and couldn't pass 6th grade. She looks ghetto, too.

That thing is not a lady. The only career she could achieve is selling sex.

And then she sits there and slurps food like a pig at a trough. 48 oysters, potatoes, crab cakes and drinks. No respect for the guy at all.

Watching and listening her would have made me nauseous.

I laugh at her for getting dumped and then outing herself for being a pig on TikTok.

[Radiate143]

Low class, sure. Ghetto, I agree. But referring to her as a "thing" is dehumanizing. Uncalled for.

[LiamJHayden]

His take:

“I offered to take you out for drinks and you ordered all that food.”

He also offered to CashApp her for the cost of his and her drinks. She tried to take advantage and ended up paying for her own overreach.

[Radiate143]

Yes, this point. I think it would be better he had stayed and did that but that's just me.

[DWornock]

I would not have. However, the fact is, women walk out on men so men have the right to walk out on women.

I asked a girl to a football game, I paid for the tickets she spend the entire game flirting with a fraternity guy and refused to change seats with me.

I asked this girl out and took her to a bar she wanted to go to. She excused herself and several minutes later said so and so will take her home.

Me and another student took two college girls to a bowl game. We paid for the tickets, the rooms, and the drinks at clubs. After we returned to our motel we discovered they had two fraternity guys in their room and they didn't invite us.

Let alone the number of times at a club or singles event, I would ask a girl to dance and on the dance floor she starts dancing with another guy leaving me stranded and embarrassed being alone on the dance floor.

Since very few girls and women are decent, why should men be?

[Radiate143]

Oh, I liked your reply about leaving the note.

[DWornock]

I would consider doing that if the bill for what the girl ate would be $400 but not for less than $100, However, not even once has the bill for our meals been much more than $200. We spent far more than that on the two college girls, but we had already spent the so what could we do other than return to college without them and we didn't do that. We never asked the girls out again either.

[AmeerX]

48 oysters with 12$ a dozen means that uncivilized guy thought he can't share like 50$ on a woman. I don't even live in US yet that much isn't that much.

Cheapskate that guy was. If he didn't like her he could have had decency to pay for her meal.

This guy was shallow. I am just appalled.

Also, I would have been a bit alarmed and took her to someplace with better filling for food. I like standard quality and large quantity. I hate those French cuisine with leaf 🌿 size servings

[Radiate143]

I don't like cheapskate either but for what the date was this was excessive. It shows low class on her part. I think he is low class for dipping.

[AmeerX]

May be she seemed to not control her appetite but he definitely seemed cheapskate

[DWornock]

I agree that it is not that much money so I would probably pay rather than have an issue or confrontation later. However, in other situations where the food is far more expensive and the woman orders the most expensive food and $100 wine, I might excuse myself to go to the restroom and tell the waitress to give us separate checks because I'm only paying for what I ordered. Or I might leave a note at the counter saying, "I have an emergency so call this number and I will pay for what I ordered. She will pay for what she ordered." Then walk out. Either way, I am covered legally. Nevertheless, walking out and leaving her to pay the bill is not bad. The worst that can happen is the restaurant contacts and you pay for what you ordered and maybe for what she ordered.

[Radiate143]

@DWornock this is how you handle a greedy date! Class act.

[Radiate143]

@DWornock put this as your opinion not as a reply. I love it.

[AmeerX]

@DWornock why go to that much expensive restaurant in the first place 👀.
100$ for wine. Seems pretty expensive for my country. We get like 27 people's food in that much 😅.
I wouldn't go to that expensive place in the first place if my earning capacity is not thmuch

[AmeerX]

Which ones you liked better

[Fireguy17]

Not sure why he would do that.

I've seen people eat them, yuck, but I wouldn't ditch a date because of that.

Hopefully she would have a few breath mints after.

[Radiate143]

Yeah I do think they were both classless. Also, don't knock it till you try it. Oysters with lemon are awesome. Also, you get this amazing feeling when you eat the.

[Fireguy17]

I will let you have all of mine and promise not to dump you.
I just do not have any interest in them.
I do not eat sea food except for a fish fry on Fridays.
Simple takes and not adventurous what so ever.

[Radiate143]

Oysters adventurous? Meh. I won't order 48. Deal?

[Fireguy17]

For me yes, others no.
Deal.
That was supposed to be simple tastes.

[OddBeMe]

Like clothing, we are putting our best impression on first dates. This bitch sounds like she wanted 50 oysters for free.

I’d have gone to the “bathroom” ordered a to go and then ditched her to cover the tip.

[OddBeMe]

Tip and the check.

[Radiate143]

That's a bit two wrongs but not worth a second date. For sure.

[OddBeMe]

(Shrugs) tit for tat. If I found my “date” was using me for a free meal or free drink my psychotic mind would find a way to pay her back in spades.

[Radiate143]

Please see @DWornock reply. I think it's the best way to handle it. With class.

[OddBeMe]

What a cuck reply. Seriously he’d just take it and pay the check. Are you one of these chicks who goes on dates just to get a free meal?

Is that any different that guys just going for a one night stand?

[gorydetails]

Wait, so The young turks bought this stupid ass fake story as something to report on? bahahahhahaahahahaha

[Radiate143]

Actually it made all the major news networks. I just chose this vid.

[gorydetails]

You think this story is true? Really? I guess people really are gullible. 4 dozen oysters are 7800 calories. There's no way she ordered 48 oysters. Furthermore the restaurant name is prominently displayed. Lastly, 4 dozen oysters cost way more than $50 unless you're going on the restaurant's oyster special night.

This is nothing more than an ad for the restaurant that "news" channels fell for.

[Radiate143]

It was on the oyster special night...

[Radiate143]

Also, they have no shortage of customers.

[gorydetails]

Have you ever eaten oysters? No way you eat 48 unless you're a fat pig or entering an eating contest. This is fake news.

[Radiate143]

I've commented about twice on this thread that after 4 oysters I'm good. I can shuck them too.

[gorydetails]

Right, so let's just take this as a lesson on how easy the media is manipulated.

[Radiate143]

Well you can.

[gorydetails]

You should also.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’d be pretty grossed out so I’d do the same

[shades777]

serves her right, who the fuck you think you are? lol

[Radiate143]

Ahem. Language!

[shades777]

im sorry are you a child? i thought this was a adult platform

[Radiate143]

Are you able to read? You certainly can curse, I just requested that people don't curse. But I guess you are going to be ignrant about it. I'm waiting...

[Radiate143]

And since when is adulthood and found language intrinsic?

[Radiate143]

*foul

[shades777]

oh that, yea it was warranted or else you wouldn't be trying to hall monitor a grown mans reply, anyways focus on what i actually said vs trying to control me, see thats some womens problem, im a grown ass man, go tell your kids what to do

[Radiate143]

Yes, you act very grown.

[shades777]

look its a free country young lady, quit trying to act like this is something upstanding classy 7 star hotel when its a motel

[Staximus]

Ordering 1 plate would be fine, but 4? Completely shameless

[Jdodkfndosn]

Bahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahah

[YAsQuen]

classical modern female