Guys, how do I get out of the friend zone?

[Anonymous]

Been seeing this guy for a while. Asked him what he wants (lots of mixed signals so i finally asked) and said he sees me more as a mate. We regularly have sex and compliments me all the time, calls me sexy etc. Said he likes me, we have good banter but more as friends.

How do I get out of the friend zone?

[Anonymous]

'But how do I be more then a friends with benefits? '

You do that by only having sex in a fully committed relationship. Women are considered to be the gatekeepers of sex, and men are considered the gatekeepers of relationships. If you fail to do your job, then the man will never commit. But due to the dual mating strategy of men and women, men will still have sex with women they will not commit to..

[Anonymous]

You don’t. You gave him sex w out commitment. Women who do that are more for fun. Because for one you think ok who else has she done this w. She’s not girlfriend material.

[greycadillacs]

I mean, if you’re having sex that’s a good sign you’re out of the friend zone

[Asker]

But how do I be more then a friends with benefits?

[greycadillacs]

You’ve gotta do some good old fashioned communication. Just tell him you want to be completely honest with him and lay it on the table. At that point, the ball is in his court and you’ve put yourself in a very vulnerable position, but just gotta go for it

[Tim2nice]

Tell him you want more but if he has no feelings for you then it’s a lost cause. Sorry