WANT MORE JUST A ROOMMATE?

[VicVer]

I am feeling very much like my wife and I are Nothin more then roommates that sleep in the same bed (not with each other) I have tried to keep the romance or anything alive I get her flowers I buy her gifts (little things, or fav candy or things for her hobbies. I brought it up to her in the past but basically get manipulated to where I feel like I'm horrible to even ask. We never have sex anymore... MAYBE once every 6 weeks. She can't take the phone out of her hand for more then like 15 mins. So it's like we never actually have any more meaningful conversations besides the day-to-day work stories as well as how the children have been. And never used to be like this things have changed significantly over the past couple years and I fear break up is my only actual recourse. Am I in the wrong? am I looking for too much? Has anyone ever had the same situation and can speak from experience? Just looking for a little guidance?

[strateguy632]

yeh at that age 30s natural less libido, due to risky pregnancy the body subconscious avoids risk by less urges.

about phone, try sitting by her while you play on your phone. maybe she will interrupted you, so you got her together.

the next time you ask for intimacy snd she says "am i only a sex toy" or whatever to guilting you, insist you are moving out. arrange to live in separate homes for three months to see if you wanna get back together or divorce and find someone with libido.

[Avicenna]

What are you doing to keep things from getting stale in your relationship?

[strateguy632]

he WROTE three things.

[Avicenna]

@strateguy632: Those are things people regularly do

[Anonymous]

when i sleep with married guys this is always the story, no sex or affection from wife

[Little_Bumblebee]

Counseling or a good talk about what is going on lately with her.