Should I allow my best friend intimate with me?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend with benefits. From what I know he likes multiple women. Years after years... his feelings for me grows slowly as he started to be more caring, sharing his activities and hobbies. I fell in love with him in the past and im trying to erase my feelings for him.

However, my best friend made moves more further than him. I started to like him more on how much effort he's doing.. even planned to find a new place if I decided to live with him. But he still couldn't filled my emptiness when my friends with benefits isn't around.

[Kaneki05]

Well is he the type to cling? Could he handle it? Cause if he can't and does cling then no you really shouldn't.
But if he ain't then why not.

As someone who clings trust me just don't bother. All your gonna get is him now wanting you and you not wanting him, and then he's going to resent you for it. Not because you did something wrong, but because it's just the way he is as a person. Don't make him wrong ethier. But both of you will be villains in each others stories.

[Holsen]

Well that means you need both like a person who is a best friend and a friend with benefits so you can either choose to find a new friend with benefits and keep your best friend or allow him to be both !!

[Biancam13]

If you’ve started to like him, then I would go with whatever makes you feel safe, comfortable and what your gut tells you. Do you want a relationship with him?

[Asker]

I'm not sure. Some part of me, if he wants to have serious relationship with me, I would want too.

[Anonymous]

I say yes, and then see how you feel about them both.

[EmmaMary]

Entirely your prerogative.

[Anonymous]

Ur choice