I think you shouldn't. Men have very toxic attitudes towards single mothers. Most of the men you will encounter won't have good intentions towards you and there are a lot of pedophiles lurking. I would stay out of the dating game if I were you. This doesn't mean you aren't lovely but it's just not so safe for single moms.
If your kid is only 6 months I don't really think you should even be focusing on dating right now.. focus on raising your baby and not guys.. and opt in for some serious birth control unless you want to be a single mom with 2 baby daddies LOL
Tbh you probably shouldn't be dating. This is why guys don't take single m9ms seriously. At best you can only give that guy a fraction of your time. Women are going to shame him, as if it's his fault fir not adjusting to you but the reality is you're going to have to stay stuck in that situation for some time.
I just saw one of your posts from seven months ago that you had a husband and were kicking out your son because he brought home a pit-bull that you didn’t approve of. Now you are a first time mom and looking to date! I am confused on giving any advice!
The same way as a single girl would. Just, everything would revolve around your kid now, instead
Oy, I saw a video of a woman the other day, who literally gave up her kids, because her new "boyfriend" doesn't want kids, and she was like "ok, I'll give them to my mom then".
What kind of woman just gives up her kids like that, just because of ONE man
maybe try making plans while your daughter is at her dads id say it is rough being a single mom and trying to juggle all that also is the guy ok you having a kid? if so maybe he could come see you even when you have your daughter if you dont wanna answer that here you can always dm me good luck and hope all works out for you
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Find a few other single/ new mothers, babysit for each other. This will provide you with time to date as well as time to do adult things as well as just relax. Being a mother with a daddy who isn't a POS is hard enough, girl you know you deserve a massage!
U don't she is 6 months old how can u carve up the massive time she will take up an cultivate a meaningful relationship with a new person like I just don't see how that possible when she is this young
Love works in mysterious ways & although it’s difficult for you to date it’s not difficult for you to ask someone out around your busy schedule. If you don’t try you will never know.
Probably will have to forgo dating for a while and just raise your daughter hopefully with her father.. I mean she is 6 months old.. I don't think that that's a good time to try and date anybody..
Challenging. And will scare off guys or only attract users. Maybe focus on ones you know, and who know you, like guys you work with that will already have some connection/context, rather than just a cute pic on a dating profile?
@Count_de_Monte_Volo That is HER problem. It is her kid. If she is lucky her parents will help. There is a GOOD reason society used to shame sex outside of marriage. Society doesn't have to deal with this crap. Kid has a dad. Get his help or keep your pants on until you have a husband.
Ofc, you can date. It's upto you if you want to be single for rest of your life or not. Find a single dad for dating who might be a good match for you. Nobody can understand you better than him.
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I think you shouldn't. Men have very toxic attitudes towards single mothers. Most of the men you will encounter won't have good intentions towards you and there are a lot of pedophiles lurking. I would stay out of the dating game if I were you. This doesn't mean you aren't lovely but it's just not so safe for single moms.
If your kid is only 6 months I don't really think you should even be focusing on dating right now.. focus on raising your baby and not guys.. and opt in for some serious birth control unless you want to be a single mom with 2 baby daddies LOL
Tbh you probably shouldn't be dating. This is why guys don't take single m9ms seriously. At best you can only give that guy a fraction of your time. Women are going to shame him, as if it's his fault fir not adjusting to you but the reality is you're going to have to stay stuck in that situation for some time.
You can’t and you shouldn’t
because even if he doesn’t do anything to your daughter
If she says he did you are going to believe her and take her side automatically
you didn’t take dating seriously when you were young and your current situation is the consequence
So wait till she’s 18 and make sure you teach her the importance of consequences and how real they are and how they affect your entire life
I just saw one of your posts from seven months ago that you had a husband and were kicking out your son because he brought home a pit-bull that you didn’t approve of. Now you are a first time mom and looking to date!
I am confused on giving any advice!
If the child's father is not willing to take more often care ask your friends. Maybe you will find someone willing to help. Or pay for a babysitter.
The same way as a single girl would. Just, everything would revolve around your kid now, instead
Oy, I saw a video of a woman the other day, who literally gave up her kids, because her new "boyfriend" doesn't want kids, and she was like "ok, I'll give them to my mom then".
What kind of woman just gives up her kids like that, just because of ONE man
maybe try making plans while your daughter is at her dads id say it is rough being a single mom and trying to juggle all that also is the guy ok you having a kid? if so maybe he could come see you even when you have your daughter if you dont wanna answer that here you can always dm me good luck and hope all works out for you
Find a few other single/ new mothers, babysit for each other. This will provide you with time to date as well as time to do adult things as well as just relax. Being a mother with a daddy who isn't a POS is hard enough, girl you know you deserve a massage!
U don't she is 6 months old how can u carve up the massive time she will take up an cultivate a meaningful relationship with a new person like I just don't see how that possible when she is this young
Love works in mysterious ways & although it’s difficult for you to date it’s not difficult for you to ask someone out around your busy schedule. If you don’t try you will never know.
Probably will have to forgo dating for a while and just raise your daughter hopefully with her father.. I mean she is 6 months old.. I don't think that that's a good time to try and date anybody..
Challenging. And will scare off guys or only attract users. Maybe focus on ones you know, and who know you, like guys you work with that will already have some connection/context, rather than just a cute pic on a dating profile?
Your situation is not easy, but a decent guy who properly understands your situation would help make it work.
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IF he sees it as a problem, then he's not the one for you anyway. You got the baggage of having a kid. that's never going to change.
6 months old?
Do not worry about dating. Just care for the baby.
When the time is right date single dads.
Who is going to earn money though? 😬🤔
@Count_de_Monte_Volo
That is HER problem.
It is her kid.
If she is lucky her parents will help.
There is a GOOD reason society used to shame sex outside of marriage.
Society doesn't have to deal with this crap.
Kid has a dad. Get his help or keep your pants on until you have a husband.
Ofc, you can date. It's upto you if you want to be single for rest of your life or not. Find a single dad for dating who might be a good match for you. Nobody can understand you better than him.
Do you have reliable child care? Can you afford to pay for it? Or you can entertain at your home.
Like you did previously. However expect either single fathers or men with low standards to go out with you. Forget about the top 20% of men.
Try finding someone who will babysit for you, and you don't have to pay them a high rate to be paid.