I find it hard to connect and form a long lasting bond with someone, ever since I have joined dating apps it has made me feel even more hopeless 😔 people there have their own agenda and most of the interaction I have formed there are never long lasting which is sad
I do feel that way at times but I always remember, I'm not alone God guides me and it's my dumb blindness to his guidance that shoves me in the dirt, if God knows it's good for you then he will give it to you at his own will at the perfect time you don't even know when that Is but it will be the perfect time, don't waste your time on dating apps, they feed more into the world than the long lasting bond you seek for but don't be unmotivated, nothing good that's ever happened to any of us has been predicted, just like all those things, love when it finds you, will catch you of guard, it can catch you on a bad day when you have a flat tire and you are just frustrated for all you know, this feeling of loneliness comes from the feeling that you'll never find someone and you'll be alone forever but you aren't alone, God is always working, I recommend connecting more with him so his guidance can lead you to the life that you need, til then just one day at a time.
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Yes and no. First off I'm not alone. I have a family and friends that care about me. But yes, romantically I think I am destined to be alone. And at my age I've more or less made my peace with that. You're right, people have there OWN agenda. So much so that I don't really bother with women anymore. I know most just wanted attention throughout my life. And now at my age most only want me because they're options are limited and they're looking for an income stream. So when you realize that it's really not bad to be single.
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dating apps and social media will cause those feelings... move into real life.
yes I was like that at times. It's a lie. find the source of the lies and deal with it, or simply practice new uncomfortable patterns, learn and grow.
welcome to life... it's a challenge to overcome obstacles.
sure. lots of the time. i feel alone even with other people.
Sometimes... at the same time, I feel I need to be married
Yes, I sometimes feel that way, and it doesn't bother me.
I try not to think that way...
I dont feel it, its happening
Yes But meeting new people removes this feeling
Absolutely.
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