Why is it so hard to reach these sexy angels? :( As a young man, they are now like a god to me. No matter what I try, it is so hard to get one, and this is why I am always depressed and unhappy. They don't like calm, quite, good, normal guys.
Well, deep in our DNA is a criteria by which we choose a mate. This hard wired attraction (greatly simplified) says we want:
For Women - Men who can provide for my safety and security as a woman, mother, and for our children. In todays world that often manifests itself as physically fit and financially stable. Not always. This is a generalization.
For Men - we want a healthy and fertile woman who can carry my offspring. Her physical appearance is the strongest indicator of this fertility. Many men are far less concerned about a woman’s professional standing or career. Not always. This is a generalization.
Women want security in life and money is often a large part of that. As her attractiveness increases, often, so does her span of reach into men of more means.
If you are solely seeking out “goddesses”, or physically stunning women then you are competing with high-value men who are likewise competing for their attention. At this point it comes down to simple economic theory. Supply & demand set value and/or worth. There is a lot of demand for beautiful women and less supply than can meet that said demand. Therefore the value of that commodity (not trying to reduce women to an object, but simply trying to simplify the theory to be easily understood.) is higher and higher.
My advice, as a man who has been lucky to have spent some time with some really beautiful and great women. Develop a self worth & confidence. Stop idolizing then. (It’s actually a turn off to a lot of beautiful women to be drooled over) and be authentic.
Your biggest problem is centering your happiness around validation from women. Center your happiness around progress toward your life goals. Women are nothing but drag chutes.
You want to know why women are expensive? When you get them pregnant you wind up paying her $1,500 a month for 18 years. That doesn't even include the alimony. Are you sure you want one now?
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YouTube "p*ssy on a pedestal".
Cause that's what you're doing. First off, any woman that you have to put that much work into, isn't worth having I PROMISE you. Secondly all these women that you have to work that much at don not give a s*** about you. She'll 86 you in a heartbeat that I also PROMISE you. Most of these women you're talking about are f***ed up beyond belief. Even if you do win her favor it'll just be one heartache after the next. So it's best just to leave them alone
But if you want to know the best way to get them you got to learn how to fish. If you don't like fishing (and I'm guessing you don't by your question). Then you have to learn to like it. Or at least pretend to like it. And when I say "fishing" I mean learn how to play these women games. Because it's the GAME that these women like. They don't want you if they can have you. They want the hunt. You have to learn to flirt with them them when she starts show interest back off so that she chases you. Now you are in the power situation. Women play this game better than men so expect to fail miserably the first few times, but learn from your mistakes. Women play this game better than men because they are weak in logic but strong in emotion. But this is why ultimately guys win (all except for the most psychologically damaged women. Because they're simply too f***ed up to lose. Think of the movie "war games" when the computer says " the only way to win is not to play. That's these women🤣).
I would advise you to skip all this and just find a nice girl though dude. They're the only ones worth your time in the end.
Because a lot of modern women are more about what you can do for them financially. I talked to a friend of mine the other night, cute, younger girl. I asked her based on a YouTube video if she’d ever be a side chick if things were taken care of for her financially. She said yes. Kind of surprised because she seems very nice, someone who I think based on her actions would want a husband, family, etc. You need to build yourself up financially, sadly that’s what will attract a lot of them. But I don’t think that’s what you want, for them to just come because you have money. But that’s the reality of it in most cases. Second don’t treat them like they’re some prize, inflating their ego. Because they know you’re a simp, so you’ll do whatever for them even if you’re in the friend zone.
They cost the most money because they do the most amazing things ❤️
u so... you don't have healthcare? are you not in the USA?
They are not, but nothing good in life comes easy.
it sounds like you are describing a particular group of women you have encountered
You never know how much something costs until you start paying for it.
Because men like you (slaves) think women are special exist.
cuz life isn’t fair
Sounds tough.
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