My boyfriend is usually a really sweet person also really emotional (gets upset easily )
He often said he overthinks almost daily which i always try to reassure him. Recently when were about to meet since the long-distance for the first time he started telling me he wants to be left alone completely for 6 days. Only till we meet bc he is really scared he will get hurt again.
Online with other people he doesn’t shy away to tell others about me even when we don’t talk so it doesn’t seem like he’s looking for someone else
What i understand is that he feels scared because of the past ex’s which i understand but it feels like he is forcing himself to detach a bit emotionally so that if things get bad he won't be hurt.
I hope i could get some advice. I don’t want to leave him alone till we meet at least.
I want to know if other men feel the need to be avoidant sometimes because they’re afraid.
He often said he overthinks almost daily which i always try to reassure him. Recently when were about to meet since the long-distance for the first time he started telling me he wants to be left alone completely for 6 days. Only till we meet bc he is really scared he will get hurt again.
Online with other people he doesn’t shy away to tell others about me even when we don’t talk so it doesn’t seem like he’s looking for someone else
What i understand is that he feels scared because of the past ex’s which i understand but it feels like he is forcing himself to detach a bit emotionally so that if things get bad he won't be hurt.
I hope i could get some advice. I don’t want to leave him alone till we meet at least.
I want to know if other men feel the need to be avoidant sometimes because they’re afraid.
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Ouch so he is doing what he says he wants to avoid.
Basically he is seeing his second girl for those days he does not want you contacting him.
After he will see you!
No contact in any relationship is a huge red flag.
There is going on vacation spending time with family and being alone but always at least a phone call 🤙 to talk and share!
Big red flag
Originally i thought so too but then why would he bother spending on coming in another country , renting an apartament in my city? For around a month , It doesn’t make sense to me
For a month of a girl there desperately wanting attention giving sex!
Hey if move for a boyfriend who is sweet romantic and loving ❣️! All mine for a month
But I was lucky enough to find my prince closer to home just 2 hours drive
Almost every other day one of us would drive down!
Always talking no red flags
No, dude has no business trying to date right now.