Why are there their so many entitled"nice guys" on GAG who don't get why us girls friendzone their asses?

[Anonymous]

Nice guys we girls turn you down because we are not attracted to you so either accept being romantically banished to the friendzone or take a long hard look at why girls dont want you an up your game.

[Anonymous]

I want a guy to be himself. If he's nice because of an act, I will be able to tell. Whether its a desperate attempt to prove he's worthy of being my boyfriend of he's trying to run game on me, I'm gonna know and im gonna reject him. Just like players get mad when you don't give up some ass to them, "nice guys" tend to feel cheated as well. All I have to say is, invest in a girl BECAUSE you like her, notbecuse you feel like it will make her like you back and if you do that, she's way more likely to like you back than if you just were doing it as reason to feel owed romantic interest because we can tell.

[Asker]

Such a good point.

[TheHooptyMiata]

I highly doubt you'd be able to tell if I was genuine or running game on you. Hell, I'm not even sure myself sometimes. Tell a lie often enough and you start believing it yourself...

[Opinion Owner]

Lol u might be right. Its a bit harder to tell if a guy is running game but its ten times easier to spot a desperate sucker feeling entitled lol

[Goldie757]

If nice is the first thing that comes to mind when you describe yourself, you're simply doing it wrong. You're supposed to be nice. You don't get credit for doing what's expected of you.

Also you don't be nice just to get laid then whine, cry and bitch when you don't succeed. That's not actually being "nice".

[ImalwaysrightOK]

And the fuckboys that aren't nice at all, what about them. They get everything for using women and discarding them like toilet paper. You women are stupid. You deserve to be used by fuckboys.

[Anonymous]

I disagree I have never been attracted to a mean guy I like guys that shows emotion and empathy but maybe I'm the only one I don't know

[Anonymous]

Yes. I stopped being nice and started being an asshole to girls and they love it! Well I get layed then they tend to cry because I'm not sticking around but at least it's them now and I'm having the fun.
Now I tell all the guys I can about it. Your so right -being nice is for chumps.

[Asker]

Did you copy and paste this from another guy on another question?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Guess the word is getting around. It's funny that you girls will get what you deserve.

[Asker]

You totally copied and pasted this lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok whatever.

[KENKONG]

Nice guys on here are total faggot passive aggressive males who think being aggressive to men and coming to the aid of women will get them pussy.

https://i.imgur.com/xXRK3cq.jpg

[KENKONG]

And when a male tries to help them out by giving them a woman's POV of why they don't like mangina, white knights they lash out.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1831589-nice-guys-manginas-white-knigths-gtfih-real-talk-also-girls-is

[ImalwaysrightOK]

You sound like a faggot yourself.

[Matt2k]

I'm a nice guy and I'm not single so that puts a spanner in your theory :p

Why do you sound so bitter towards boys though? Makes it seem like you're in fact the one getting turned down.

And half that stuff you posted is utter bollocks! There's loads of women who like nice guys and go out with them, maybe when you grow up a bit you'll see that.

[Asker]

Im talking about guys who play the nice guy as an act to get a girlfriend or get laid but thrn complain about being friendzoned. Sorry I should have been more clear. Maybe your less of a nice guy and more of a decent guy perhaps?

[Matt2k]

Fair enough, well thanks. I do know where you're coming from, there are certainly some guys who complain and say "why am I single, I'm a nice guy", then it turns out they're not so nice and they come off as bitter and entitled.

I do think you could have expressed it better though! :p I mean that one where it says "you're the only one who is genuinely nice to me, maybe we should give it a shot... said no girl ever" for example, I've actually had an ex girlfriend say something similar to me. She was a loner type who lived with her grandparents and didn't have many friends, so yeah a lot of that list doesn't ring true to me at all, but I realise it's probably tongue in cheek!

[Anonymous]

Being put in the friendzone means I like you as a friend but not a romantic partner. There could be various reasons for this. Ranging from there being to wide an age gap, to her not being physically attracted to you. No she's never going to change her mind either, best thing he can do is move on. No sense in wasting your time pursuing someone that will never be interested in you. It will save you lots of heartache in the end. If you think she's a b*** for rejecting you, keep in mind that she doesn't owe you anything!

[MrPresident]

Nice guys lets admit you also reject girls because of her aperence dont Cry when a girl does the same. The difference is that we dont friendzone as hard as girls do.

[Asker]

Which Is better I think of you as a friend or sorry honey I don't fat ugly chicks? Lol

[Crimson811]

Yes I see that all the time too with guys! They reject women that consider unattractive all the time but the second we do it we're "shallow". On another related question, I stated I'd never date a guy that didn't practice good oral hygiene, and guess what? It was implied that I was shallow. Funny thing is that they wouldn't date a woman with nasty teeth. So I'm not dating a guy that has them, sorry.

[Mistnigqa808]

Cuz it's easier to blame y'all instead of looking into the mirror at themselves, right?

"OMG SHE REJECTED CUZ _____" or maybe she just didn't like yo ugly and or creepy pseudo nice ass LOL.

[TheGreatValerie]

You hit it rite on the nail

[ThisDudeHere]

I'm not going to describe myself as 'nice' since I'm more than just one adjective. None the less, 'nice' fits into my description. And before you tell be that you wouldn't date me, don't worry, I wouldn't want to date you either. Judging by the way you wrote the take, you're the type that thinks of dating as a "game" which is a player (male & female) toxic mentality. I don't need people with that kind of mentality.

[Asker]

Game as in being better than you are ie move out of your parents basement, go to college, get fit, lose weight, get some style etc in other words be the best person you can be.

[ThisDudeHere]

First of all the notion that you're "better" than someone else is absurd. That's narcissistic and now I'm 100% sure I wouldn't date you even if I had no other choice. And I like how your description of a good person involves purely material wealth and possessions That speaks volumes of the type of person you are. A shame there's yet another golddigger in the making.

[Asker]

Why is she not allowed in you butthurt opinion to value herself and seek a decent guy?

[ThisDudeHere]

You have yet to name a single thing that would make you a good catch for said decent guy. You go out of your way of describing a decent guy yet you make no mention of what you're bringing to the table.
I mean, let me guess, you'll look pretty? Is that it?

[TheGreatValerie]

Dude she's not saying it like that. Give her a break she can't explain it perfectly bit she's probably speaking from experience that guys who live in their parents basement and whatnot feel like she owes them her love JUST BECAUAE they were nice yo her as an example. It has nothing to do with that, its just you have to have more to offer than just being nice. Anybody can be nice. And you shouldn't stab at her character and tty to make her feel bad for wanting more than just a guy whose nice. She isn't a gold digger. Would you want to date a sloppy, no job having, no priorities having female? I wouldn't think so so don't get all upset at the girl for making a valid point with a poor choice of words and pictures

[ThisDudeHere]

@TheGreatValerie
"making a valid point with a poor choice of words and pictures"

That she has indeed done.

[Crimson811]

We don't owe you anything, sorry. If you want a hot model type, with good income, then you better make sure you look like an underwear model with three figure salary. Otherwise date within your league. You aren't entitled to whatever woman you want just because you're a "nice guy".

[ThisDudeHere]

For one, you're putting words in my mouth without likely having read anything I wrote. For two, way to necro an old post.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

@asker is a washed up b1tch that wouldn't know a high value man to save her pathetic life.

[Summeroflove]

I wouldn’t call them “nice guys”. They’re guys who are nice as a front to get sex and that’s it. That’s all they value and they wonder why they only attract women who only want sex or use them.


They’re not being nice because they’re nice people. There are plenty of great people who are attractive. But they’re genuinely nice.


I don’t think you want guys who hate you and aren’t even into you.

[TheHooptyMiata]

See, I love this. It's spot on. Being nice isn't hot. But then when I treat women like shit, use them for sex, lie to them and manipulate them, they hate me too. Men really can't win, but y'know, at least I get laid.

[Aus15688]

I actually want to be in the friend zone. I would actually love to have a female friend to go shopping with and do regular things with. Girls automatically think I want a relationship when really I just want to be “girlfriends” with them. I am straight too

[Europa789076]

That's why I stay away from asking woman out and relationships to focus on my career and travelling. I rather live in peace and no drama

[Watermelonoma]

boy oh boy, i can't wait for the crash

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Most women are so fucked up in the head.

[Zrelthrhaiel]

Go whine somewhere else.

[Asker]

Exactly my point damm whiny butthurt losers lol