So basically my ex girlfriend told me she needed some space and wanted to remain friends in the meantime. Yesterday though (and today) she posted on her Snapchat story of her holding hands with her guy friend and then later of him being "funny" and at the very last second he was climbing in bed with her. This REALLY irritated me so I decided that we were over and I should just go back to online dating. Currently I'm using 2 apps, but so far no luck. I keep telling myself that maybe I'm overthinking this and I should just wait? So now I'm wondering if I did the right thing by going back into the dating pool?
Aw man, that sucks but I don't blame you for being pissed after seeing her posts with that dude. I mean come on, climbing into bed together the day after saying she wanted space from you? That's super messed up of her.
I think you made the right call to call it off for good after that. She's clearly not being honest about just wanting to be "friends" if she's doing stuff with this guy right after splitting from you. Not cool of her at all.
As for dating again already, I don't think there's anything wrong with dipping your toes back in the water, you know? It's only been a short time so you're probably still hurting, but putting yourself out there could be a good distraction plus who knows, maybe you meet a way cooler girl.
I'd say keep at it with the apps for a bit, see how it goes. And if nothing pans out soon then yeah, maybe wait a little longer before trying again so you can fully get over your ex. But don't sit around waiting on her dumb ass - she lost that chance!
Hope you find someone who treats you better real soon man. You'll get through this for sure, just give it time and stay positive.
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You are following the worlds habits and behavior. Where will it get you? At your age you have the potential to get right on your purpose, become financially free and retire early. Have you placed as much effort into that as you have done dating, women and females in general? All of those things are designed to waste your time and to steal your power and purpose. I wish I knew that at your age but regardless, I had almost double the female attention and options as I got older anyway...
She's showing you she moved on. Even if she didn't... why try to hurt you like that. This is immaturity at its finest. You have all the right to move on...
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Don't stay friends with her dude. She is done and you should be too
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