Any advice on how to get over not looking like a supermodel?

[JHAYES317]

For me, I’ve always wanted was to be tall, well endowed, Norwood 0 hairline, and really good looking where I would get matches on dating apps daily. I have none of that…and I can’t do anything to change that reality because I don’t have millions of dollars to get leg breaking surgery, plastic surgery on my face, hair transplants, or genital implants, and likely never will have that kind of money due to my career choice (singer & an actor) unless I get insanely lucky. And yes, I’m already in therapy, but doesn’t seem to be helping. And no, medication recommendations are not wanted…

[jennifer_bloom]

When your younger, you feel like a victim of things like genetic gifts or family background but as you age, you realize, you can build things in your life to neutralize any problems you had at birth. Like I’m not as intelligent as some of my classmates from school, but I believe I can earn more than them, because I have unique talents they do not have, unique life experiences, and unique traits in my mental abilities that they don’t have. One example is that I’m able to write best selling books in over 17 categories like art creation, marketing, child care, music creation, advertising, religion, pop psychology, learning skills, brain development, language foundations, etc..

[JHAYES317]

That’s fair…but its very unlikely I will ever very wealthy because I am too risk averse. Rich people often take out massive loans to buy stuff like real estate and often have a lot of debt that they leverage against their assets. Being in debt gives me too much anxiety

[jennifer_bloom]

My aunt was gorgeous and she married my uncle who was poor and average looking because he wrote her love letters and was very charming. Charm can be learned.

[ZiaCowel2000]

I don’t know I as well have low self esteem but I’ve accepted myself. I just try my best to maintain my current self. Maybe down the line I’ll have something done. I know I don’t need it, and that if I do maybe I’ll want something else done. As for you, it’s up to you. I don’t believe in those false words of love yourself regardless etc.


Because some people hate themselves from the past, inside out etc and have high standards, it leaches out toward them attacking their appearance. My advice is to better or maintain to look the best you and not somebody else. But that’s easier said than done.

[Unit1]

If you want to be a supermodel, then your best bet is to become rich and apply these changes. I see you are well aware of that, not that it's not obvious.

Did you know what Andrew Tate said in his Christmas message?

He said he wants us to believe in ourselves and that us not having the "perfect genetic gifts" shouldn't be a reason for us to give up. Only because Andrew Tate might have it all and boasts about having a Christmas sex party including just himself and multiple women doesn't mean he hasn't started out in the same position as you are.

[aceleon]

if the guy in the photo is you, you are not bad looking, if anything just average no one would call you ugly, for height, how tall are you? i'm not tall either, 5'10 at most (and i admit i would do the height surgery if i could since i want to be at least as tall as my father (6'1) but from my understanding you sound like you are shorter than me (might asume wrong though)

[JHAYES317]

I’m like 5’6” or maybe 5’7” if I have impeccable posture and stretch a lot

[aceleon]

kinda bad but not entirely i have a 5'3 friend (possibly even 5'2)

[Curiositykilledcat7]

This boy might be smarter then 99% of us but you can adopt his mind frame and be happy too best of luck

[JHAYES317]

What? What are you talking about?

[Nikki1989]

Wow, you have no shortage of insecurities. Seek therapy.

[JHAYES317]

If you read my post…I already am in therapy

[PrettyCrumblBb]

If that's you on your profile picture, you're already handsome ☺️

[JHAYES317]

That is me yes and thanks, but I’m 5’7” on a good day, so it doesn’t matter if I’m handsome, I’m invisible regardless. Getting lead roles as an actor as a 5’6” ish man is really tough